Relationships strengthen with direct communication. Relationships weaken when either party fears direct communication. This is a lesson I see many founders struggle with -- especially with their co-founders, early employees, and first execs. In the best working relationships, each party not only communicates directly but encourages direct communication from the people they work with. PS: direct communication doesn't mean being an asshole. You can be kind/compassionate but still direct.
Today I read that butterflies rest when it rains because it damages their wings. It's okay to rest during the storms of life. You'll fly again when it's over.
Not enough adults are understanding that they have to create moments of happiness in their lives. Find things to be excited about. Create plans to look forward to. Decorate the house during holidays. Make a playlist you only listen to on Tuesdays. Keep your favorite snacks stocked in case of a bad day. You have more control over your joy than you think.
Late night vulnerable thought:
I used to think there was something wrong with me when a friendship wouldn’t last & then I realised there is something fundamentally wrong in how ppl treat friends these days. Ppl cut off each other for the most selfish reasons, communication -
Ex Apple design leader Colin Burns talks about how Apple comes up with 100 ideas, creates 10 prototypes and land on one product/feature.
Most companies do the opposite. Come up with one idea, ship it and move on.
I can't even order a coffee without downloading an app at LaGuardia airport
What public official approved this contract?
I don't want this app on my phone.
This is the airport. We are trapped consumers. We should be able to order a coffee without apps.
I think the excitement around Config is not a zealous allegiance for tools, but demonstrates the need for a creative conference where people can talk shop and just be.
being productive at work is EASY with a disciplined routine: I spend the first 6 hours doing nothing at all, and the final 2 hours in absolute SICKO mode with the fear of god inside me