Young girls who are entering Joburg for the first time... be careful.
The men who have been here for years have years of experience. You're not smarter than them. You're not smarter than the women that came before you.
They will buy you drinks and "expect nothing in return"... they know what they are doing. Trust me.
It's so easy for them to not ask for sex coz they'll get it that evening anyways... from other medium term and long term projects they have been investing in before you.
You're a new project. A gamble. Out of every 10... 7 come back all the time... like a loyal dog. Free drinks. Free airtime. No payback. No ask for conversation or sex. Just freebies... who wouldn't want that????
Of the 7 who keep coming back... 5 will eventually cave in and give up the cookie.
He'll be gentle and won't even rush you. He'll take his time and you'll fall... trust me... the guys here are experienced campaigners, you're the novice debutant entering the lion's den, the shark cage, for the first time...
If you can... find Khanyi Mbau interviews on YouTube... she says men will buy you things, but ultimately you're the one who pays...
Stay safe babygirl. Look after yourself. Remember what you were taught at home. Stay in your lane. Go home when finances or school go sideways. Don't get caught up in the flashing lights and become second-hand used goods, with tattoos of every man who has entered you, tattood on your tired, booze-worn face and exploited lips...
Blessers aren't all big, black sweaty men, who call each other "chief" or "cadre" with broken English... some are well-spoken, boys' school alumni with corporate jobs in Sandton, but broken from past relationships and looking to emulate the wolves that stole the loves of their lives and shattered their hearts, in their younger years...
I love you babygirl. Please love yourself. There are good men outchea. I've seen them. Even when they mess up, they work hard to redeem themselves. Invest in these men.
Be careful of wolves in JHB... stay safe. Money is not everything. Your health, heart and mental sanity are worth so much more...
I love you.
Penuel Mlotshwa
#theblackpen 13 October 2017
AmaHlubi clans 📍
AmaHlubi are one of the oldest baNtu Kingdoms. Dating back as far as the 1200's.
It's important to note that AmaHlubi were a nation not a clan. A nation is made up of many clans.
Today these Hlubi clans can be found all over Southern Africa.
This is SKHONZA MNQABI The guy who lied about Dr Qwabe that he is smoking Weed at hospital premises and has now changed his Profile Pic Please Retweet This image to Circulate until HPCSA charges him
#JusticeForAKA Thuli Madonsela Andile Minister of Electricity #cabinetreshuffle