Everything i own nor have achieved today is from God and started with a mindset…Progress lies not in enhancing what is, but in advancing toward what will be.
THE GOAL IS TO MAKE PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION..
I’m of the opinion that when you’re truly ready to do right by yourself, you’ll sit up.
You won’t need a motivational speaker, a podcast, or a life coach.
You’ll look at your life, recognize what needs to change, and that alone will be enough motivation to act.
Gm guys and happy new week💜
I love women, but I am not foolish or a slave to it.
I won’t engage in self-diminishing acts of foolery to prove I love a woman, disrespect my woman because of other women, or allow other women to disrespect her.
I love food; I can cook and you must know and like to cook. The way to my heart is my stomach.
Know your place as my wife and don’t abuse it.
I won’t stress you; don’t stress me.
If you stress me beyond a reasonably acceptable level, I will exercise my right to leave the union.
There are many cheating stories in the anonymous. We are breaking people's heart, self esteem and romantic plans they have for themselves. If we want to create a better society, we first have to start with a stable family. There are real people the infidelity is hurting and they have to live with the pain of feeling they are not enough. This puts a wrinkle in their emotion anytime they think of you.
Some of you want to forgive and continue the relationship but your fear is whether it will repeat itself. Continuing the relationship is one thing, but trust has to be earned. As much as you want to trust your partner again, trust is not a gift. You can't trust them into faithfulness. They have to earn the trust through behavioral changes and faithfulness. Trust needs evidence of character changes to stand. They have to reach that point themselves where they decide they want to be committed to you and the family and nothing else matter. Ensure you get that in the relationship before you get to the point where you say "I do."
Infidelity is cruel to committed lovers, and you have to come together easily to have such a relationship where you feel like you're living in a dream, and cruelty doesn't sometimes intercept. Some of you are not street, but you decide to step out because you know people who step out and get away with it. But life has a way of punishing you for stepping out of character. The day you do it, you lose the person that matters most to you, and even worse, break them.
It takes an astronomical amount of work and courage to disrupt a familiar pattern. Sometimes, it seems easier to just keep running in the same familiar circles because people do not want to do the work. If you love someone, love should make you want to be better for them and the family you want to have together.
For the broken hearted, I know that preventing your heart from forgiving someone you love is actually a hell of a lot harder than simply forgiving them. But the dilemma of forgiving and continuing the relationship is valid because even if there is a possibility they could have changed for the better, it is a tough tell without guarantee, especially when those risks have failed you in the past.
Everyone needs grace and compassion but we can't continue abusing it, hoping it will always exist to save us. Love is consideration. Consider the person you're hurting. We have the mind of Christ. My prayer for you is that you'll marry once and marry right.
I remember posting days ago that many women do not understand or interpret peace as genuine love, which is why they create chaos where there is none and would not believe a man who loves them peacefully truly loves them.
They interpret chaotic situations as genuine love, which is why they love toxic men.
The easiest way to lose a woman is to give her absolute peace.
Detach yourself from the hunger for online attention and focus solely on increasing your value as a man
Every other thing shall fall in place when you’ve finally figured out who tf you are. Only you can dictate your worth
Stay afloat and stay grinding
Just because there is someone better or finer, does not validate the hurt you cause others. There is a face to the pain you cause. The illusion of choice, the existence of options and the possibility of getting better, does not excuse the hurt you caused.
Money or Love question is always funny to me. You can make money but if you can't enjoy it with the one you love, you feel empty. If you have love but you're not rich, all your bills won't be paid on time, but love will always ensure your heart is not void.
The world can’t carry everyone along.
Some will be left behind.
Some will be forgotten.
Some will be abandoned.
But may it not be you and I.
May we never be counted among those who watched destiny pass by… Or those who realised too late that they had been left behind.
May it not be you.
May it not be me.
A lot of companies and organizations are looking for visibility or ways to improve, and somehow you might be the person with the juice they need.
Many of you are jobless, want something different for yourselves, or have enough time on your hands wasting away.
Many of you are good at identifying problems, solving problems, storytelling, creativity, branding, marketing, and more.
Use your phone or computer and browse through companies in places like New Zealand, Australia, etc.
For example, on Google, type:
“List out 50 telecom companies in New Zealand.”
Or…
“List out 50 agricultural companies in New Zealand.”
Or…
“List out 50 energy companies in New Zealand.”
Go through their company websites.
Watch as many videos of them on YouTube as you can.
Study how they communicate.
Many of them are struggling with storytelling and advertising.
Many of them are yet to update something from their end.
For many of them, their logo doesn’t speak well for their identity.
Find something you know they are missing out on.
Find something you know they can improve.
Email them.
Call them.
Tell them you have been studying their company for a while because you love what they represent.
Tell them you created an advert for them with a stronger story and better representation.
Sell yourself as much as you can.
People buy belief before they buy ability.
Many opportunities are given to confidence, not perfection.
Perfection gets noticed later.
Confidence gets you into the room first.
Every powerful person you admire was underestimated by someone… until their results made disbelief expensive.
Get in touch with as many companies as you can.
One day, the confidence you projected will become the reality everyone else sees.
That’s how impossible reputations are built… and how life goes from nothing to something.
You don't have the finances to start life in another country doesn't mean you don't have what it takes to start life in another country.
Before you think of impossibilities, think of positioning.
Position yourself first... #ThingsDeySup.