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When you want your romantic life to be improved 20x, message me. It's my job to help you attract your life's greatest memories while maintaining total integrity

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I love watching any @ufc match... That is until, a fighter starts preaching about their religion. That always puts me in the fight with the remote to not shut off the whole show. Way to ruin a post fight interview...

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Skill creates the moments people mistake for magic.

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#Dating is your training ground; if you can’t generate connection there, relationships will only magnify the gaps.

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A lover experiences your character far more than your accomplishments. You can have a strong career, impressive hobbies, and a great social circle, yet still create an emotional experience that feels tense, distant, dull, inconsistent, or unsafe.

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And when you rarely say “we need to talk,” those words actually land with the gravity they deserve.

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Conversations with a serious tone frequently lead to defensiveness in return. It's to your benefit to find ways to make "serious" conversations more playful and connected when possible. #relationships

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Most conversations evolve positively when they’re held with warmth, not pressure.

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Choosing to act through imperfect scenarios builds skills that lead to what feels like "perfect moments" but are actually experience paired with decent timing.

Don't wait for the perfect moment... Use the moment for training.

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73% of men really regret asking their girlfriend/wife to "calm down" immediately after saying it. 97% regret it after the girlfriend/wife responds... Are these numbers non-tested? Yes! Do they feel valid? Yes!

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If you can’t evoke desire early, you’ll fight to maintain it later in relationships. #dating is a skill

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#Dating is complex because every person you go out with is different in personality & goals. HOWEVER, it’s more simplistic when you focus efforts on the part of dating that is a constant: YOU, your skills, your insights, your expressions, your values, your offers. Master those!

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The good news in this: figuring out first dates and how you put yourself across may be tough to figure out at first, but once you dial it in, it can become like a well tuned script that IS custom to you, your desires, etc.

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If your #date feels confused about how they feel about you, it means they don’t feel enough, and/or you give an incongruent expression of self & intentions. #datingtips #moderndating

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The absolute best advice for achieving a long term goal by Tolstoy.

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Jealousy is love knocking with fear in its hands. Answer gently, and it becomes your teacher. #jealousy #relationships #rejection

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Resentment repels. Attraction requires appreciation. There is always room to clean up your view towards the person/people you long to #attract and #love. #dating

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Mark my words: dating is becoming a form of self improvement. In due time, the standard state of complaining will be viewed as pathetic…

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You’ll always struggle to #attract who you are repulsed by… If you hate the #sex you #desire, don’t expect results!