@hornyandpoetic You yourself know what kind of responses the responder should say, so let it be known that your initial question reflects exactly the same effort as you did in coming up with your desired responses.
They matched you and wanted to chat with you. Then make the “how are you” count
@hornyandpoetic You keep re-iterating your responses to other people claiming “character limit” but it’s more of you not accepting the fact that communication goes both ways and not just getting the responder to do all the work.