V. W. Matinde

Fiction fantasy indie-author.

Novel -- Lords Over Kenia: The Prophecy of the Moon Chief

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

Brazil being robbed there. 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

How don't they have 4 yellow cards by now??? Clear stamp by Lautaro.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

The only redeeming aspect about Argentina is Lisandro. Filthy.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

Nani ata perform AFCON2027. 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

I can't picture Lampard or Gerrard coaching United. Unfathomable.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

So can we agree Aston Villa sold their game v Tottenham???

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

Who????

[Fabrizio Romano @FabrizioRomano]

🚨 Michael Jackson will be Burnley’s interim manager until the end of the season, club statement confirms.

Follows Scott Parker leaving with immediate effect.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

Just a year ago saying, 'chukua kura' was so unpopular you'd be hanged on these streets. Now they are shaming you for not saying it.. Nashindwa na hii generation. 😂😂😂😂

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

😂😂😂😂😂 What is the point of your social media accounts? @FaibaJTL Wiki nzima net is in the gutters na response ni 'DM number' . Just fix your network.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

@FaibaJTL you're internet has been horrible the past few days. 🙆🏾‍♂️ 🙆🏾‍♂️ When should we expect normalcy?

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

EXACTLY!!!!!!!

[Mumbi @NotYourNyukwaKE]

Yenyewe women and accountability ni maji na mafuta. We are not ready to admit that if those women refused the advances of that moralless yt ape. He would have nothing to post and boast about. But let's call out the man for recording them without consent

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

@GOtvKenya_ Can I still pay for gotv if I haven't used the service for years? My IUC is 2017319690

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

Men, when you go for therapy, make sure you request for a man, preferably a married man. Thank me later.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

Speak for yourself! Give me boring everyday kama hii ndio mnaita flavour.

[Thirsty Kipsoiwet 🇰🇪 🇳🇱 @Makiadi_]

Most men won’t admit it, but sometimes we crave such “violent” women in our lives. The jealousy, possessiveness, raw emotions, and honesty adds flavor to otherwise boring relationships. A little chaos here and there gives us dopamine, but we’re careful not to tell anyone.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

"Humans should not be veterinary doctors. " Dwanzi.

[KENYA GOSSIP HUB @kenyasgossips]

"Gynaecologists today are mostly men, even them they know its awkward" - Kenyan lady sparks controversy, says men should never be gynaecologists.

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

What are these names! 😭😭😭

[Iron Lady. (African Jacana) @2njerii]

Until Craig passed on. We had 12 Super Tuskers in Tsavo and Amboseli . Their Tusks curve differently easier to identify them .

Craig(RIP)
Pascal
Paolo
Tee-Jay( Nephew to Tim )
Vronsky
Michael
X004
Esau
Conor
Wickstrom
One Ton
Umoja

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

1. Talk about the men in your family, not men.
2. Who bought the things you're cooking? Built where you are cooking? Drove you there? Expected to buy gifts for you?
3. If the men were not there, would you still cook?

Don't you get tired of these dumb copy-paste feminist takes?

[KENYA GOSSIP HUB @kenyasgossips]

Kenyan lady claims that it is only men who enjoy the Christmas festive season because women are always in the Kitchen cooking for them

— 🎥 Mulyungi Essy

[V. W. Matinde @VinMatinde]

Wow! Just wow!

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

Young Men!
Young Men!!!
Young Men!!!!!

This might be the most practical thing you’ll read on finances in marriage today.

Take this from as a man who is within your age, who understands the reality of the times we find ourselves firsthand, and genuinely wants the best for you in your marriage.

In today’s world, both men and women are socialized to gain knowledge, interact with the world and get the wherewithal to make money. Many of us even grew up in households where our mothers worked as well. So, it’s very impractical and difficult to leave money making to men alone while married to women who have invested to themselves and can make money too.

To the true biblical meaning and interpretation of what this pastor says in the video and quotes quotes…

We all know that according to African culture and tradition, a man is often expected to be a provider. However, it’s not biblical. The Bible verse used in this video is not speaking to men alone. In 1 Timothy 5:8, the responsibility is placed on anyone who neglects their family, not just males. The Bible also never says that one gender must carry the full weight of provision. There is no verse that names the man as the only provider. In fact, Proverbs 31 shows a woman who actively supports her family in many ways from financially, emotionally, and spiritually. Provision goes far beyond just money. It includes love, guidance, care, wisdom, and creating a home where life can grow.
This money alone mentality is what making most people ignore their father in old age while catering to their mother. The same provision mentality is why most men are married to women who would never sacrifice a single thing for them.

Above all, I’ve always said it here that God Himself is the true Provider. Neither man nor woman is the source, we only try and put our best foot forward but God/life ultimately decides. Everything we need ultimately comes from what’s been orchestrated by God, “My God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus”
The biblical model for marriage is partnership, mutual support, and shared responsibility, and not placing unrealistic pressure on one person based on culture rather than Scripture.

I also find that many Preachers, especially Nigerians interpret the scriptures with the environment they find themselves in alone, not taking cognisance of the fact that it can travel globally. God’s template is universal.

Marriages in other parts of the world thrive regardless of who earns more, simply because the parties involved have family values and because their marriage is hinged on love, family values, and genuine desire.

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Always remember, God can bless anyone in your family. Life/God could bless your wife or even use your child to change the financial trajectory of your family. Please do not let your ego or some backward culture get the best out of you.
Nothing is more important in the family you’re trying to build than each and every member of your household having family values. Let family values be the watchword of your household.

Let’s get rid of this provision mindset that makes it impossible for men to take their women abroad or live anywhere in the world.
There’s also no reason a man should also leave his wife to be stressed with chores, just because culture says men shouldn’t watch plate & do chores.

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Most older men are unfit to give practical counsel in marriage as they have owing to old age, their dogmatic views and culture, and the fact that they’ve lost touch with reality.
They do not understand the times we find ourselves and they simply can’t. They didn’t buy gadgets in their time, they didn’t pay for subs in their time, inflation and cost of living wasn’t at an all time high like this. So, they do not understand the socioeconomic reality of most men and thus, can’t advise practically.

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Modern men have a much different reality from older men.

Society has evolved, we must evolve reasonably with it.

[Weigo @Samweigo]

Sielewi vile you men have changed roles so easily. Girls are now getting desperate for love ata ndo wameanza kuingia dms kusimp. This is becoming so impressive 😭😂

[Modern Dad @ModernxDad]

The moment a woman stops respecting her man..