Sexual discipline is key.
Hold yourself. Yes you may want to catch cruise and flirt here and there but having that sexual discipline is very key
It will take you far in life.
"we didn't end on good terms we ended on your terms. i didn't let you go you let me go. you gave up on me when i was willing to hold on to nothing just to keep u in my arms."
Once you stop caring about someone the same way, they suddenly look completely different.
You start seeing them as just another regular person. They stop feeling special bcz it was always ur love that made them shine like that and placed them way above everyone else.
Hard truth.
Never force anybody to choose you. If they think they can find better somewhere else, let 'em go chase that shit. Real value doesn't beg, compete, or convince. Stay focused on your hustle, stack your wins, and keep moving. The people who overlook you today usually realize your worth when it's way too damn late. 🤍
Nobody talks about how hard it is to force yourself to be ok with situations you wish turned out differently. That shit will literally make or break you.
Sadly, some of you have friends who can't raise their hands to mention your name in a room full of opportunities because they secretly like it when they're doing better than you.
functional depression is a real thing. you work, joke, make people happy and take care of your family. yet mentally you’re drowning in your own thoughts.
Chioma, you don’t have OCD because you cleaned your kitchen sink and mopped the floor.
Social media has convinced too many people that every inconvenience is trauma.
Not every disagreement is abuse.
Not every criticism is gaslighting.
Not every uncomfortable situation is toxic.
Using clinical language for ordinary experiences doesn’t make them more serious. It makes real problems harder to recognise.