being healthily loved looks like
• emotionally intelligent conversations
• unexplainable trust and safety
• they reaffirm their love for you consistently
• they take your emotions/perspectives seriously without calling them silly
• you feel like you can tell them anything without fear
• they try their best to understand you instead of reacting from their shadows
• they protect you from their shadows
• you feel like you’re on the same team
• your body feels relaxed
• your nervous system unwinds more and more everyday
• if there are moments of contrast, they show up from a place of love for you over wanting to be right
may, serenade my senses and sharpen my softness. feed me the discernment to spot energy traps and enough love for myself not to fall into them. let me move at the pace of my own peace without stopping my dance for those who can’t handle the rhythm of my progression. be bountiful.