@suburbs_enjoyer@marygaitspill I felt this for my groomer, then the thought of me having a daughter someday killed it. I'd demand him to act right immediately, and know he could. it's 100% a choice. matter of fact it got me into the mindset that it was my responsibility to leave him or else I'd be an enabler.
โeven the ones that hurt meโ god it must feel so good to be a man when thereโs always a woman to excuse your malice at every turn.
inflict upon us imaginable horrors? โoh but he was once a boy.โ
this is how ghislaine felt abt epstein while he never thought about her at all.
your desire to protect men could come from the belief that servicing a man excludes you from being a victim. it is a consequence of knowing what men are. or maybe you infantilize them and don't hold them accountable for their horrible actions, like you can 'fix' them.
@somnolent_night that's trueee so idk who started it first. ig they deserve each other then. the real victims are the people in between lmfao. i once had a friend who wanted to fuck me because their ex was a dick. got unfriended when i wasn't into it.
@somnolent_night not really. they'd deserve each other if she wasn't the victim going back to the man who repeatedly cheating on her. but she's choosing to take her power back in an immature way. he deserves it when it's cheating BACK. it's not just cheating.