Vicky

Calm

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

A "blind" husband is a good husband.

And a good wife is a wife that keeps him permanently "blind" in peace.

Anyday a blind husband decides to open his eyes, he ceases to be a good husband.

Anyday his wife discovers that he's no longer blind, she ceases to be a good wife.

End.

[H I I K Y A A T O R @HiikyaaTor]

After my message against this government went viral, I have received threats against my life. Nigerians are frustrated and I am not backing down.

[Vicky @virtuousvickki]

@OPay_NG Where can I save with this big Friday?

[Vicky @virtuousvickki]

@Fracas728 @Wizarab10 I can relate.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Hmmmmm.

Let me give you an unsolicited advice based on what you said here.

Be careful with how you pour out your worries or fears to your wife.

You may say she's your wife, but she's soaking them in.

Women are not as strong as you may think.

Sieve what you say to her.

Take all your problems to God when you're praying alone.

Not your wife.

She is mostly interested results, and less of the process.

I hope you understand me.

[Vicky @virtuousvickki]

@jomanintelz @official_Gegeh 👀

[Vicky @virtuousvickki]

@enoruyi @jon_d_doe See analysis 😁 🤣 😂

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

With the mindset of many Gen Z men, I hope some of you will not divorce your future wives if they lose their jobs.

I have said it many times: before you get married, have the 'I can do it alone' mindset. Do not decide to marry a woman mainly because she earns her own money.

Remove your eyes from her money and plan your future with her with your own money.

A woman's money is not sweet to taste.

A woman doesn't have to work to make money, before she qualifies to be a wife and mother.

If you're not ready to start thinking this way, please avoid marriage.

The fact that women get up to 4 months maternity leave (in some countries, more), should tell you that a woman's place of recognition and strength is mostly from being a mother, a home maker, a nurturer and a wife.

See her money as a bonus, or rather, an additional privilege to you.

Not your right.

Not your entitlement.

Not your inheritance.

Not your dependable source, but your reliable source.

A wife that is playing her roles effectively and efficiently, is not a liability.

I don't care what any of you wokist or "in saner" climes pundits want to say about this.

This is Africa. And Africa remains the true foundation of family values.

We educate women so that our society can be educated.

We raise women so that we can have families, responsible children and a home.

You cannot call your wife and mother of your children a liability, when you are hardly home, and she's there holding things down in your absence. That's an asset.

You young men must start to recalibrate your mindsets and avoid severe depression or consequences in the future in your marriage.

A woman will aways remain a woman.

End.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

The love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the most sincere there is.
A solitary soul loves you by choice, not out of a need for company.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

You're 35+, and shame no dey catch you say dem dey call you boyfriend.

"My boyfriend is 39 years old"

Your mates don born finish ooo.

Dey there dey do:

"Hello boo😘"

"I miss you my boo boo💞 "

"boo have you eaten today💋?"

"My pumpkin 🎃"

Old papa youngie.

End.

[Man Directive @mandirective]

A woman’s shape says more than you think.

It can reveal her health, habits, and even her emotional state.

Here’s what each shape secretly tells you. 🧵

[Dating Dynamics @Dating_Dynamics]

Marriage has six stages,

But most couples give up at stage three.

Stage 1: The Honeymoon Stage....

[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

God ordained marriage, yes.

But not everyone will or should get married.

What fuels marriage is money.

And it's largely hinged on the man.

If the man that you are dating right now is not showing you any true potential to provide financially in marriage, please do not get married to him.

As a woman, you'd suffer in that marriage if you get married to a lazy man.

Or if you get married to a man that is just struggling to get by.

And you won't be able to function properly as either a mother or a wife.

The only way that you'd be able to function properly, is if your husband takes away the burden of provision from you.

Your heart would be heavy if you heard the cries of hunger from your children.
And your husband would be there, doing nothing about it.

The reason I am saying this is because a lot of wives and mothers are living in regret. They constantly call for financial help from family and friends so that they can feed their children.

But they have husbands.

Yesterday, I posted a video of a man and his wife publicly embarrassing themselves.

The wife was screaming that she pays the school fees, she feeds the kids, she does this and that, and her husband was shamelessly standing there, replying to her.

If you watched the video to the end, you would have heard the man wishing that his wife would die before him.

That is why I keep telling you women about the dangers of enabling a man, or getting married to a man who hasn't proven to you that he's willing or capable of stepping into that role as a father and husband.

He resents his wife, but he's eating her food.

He takes his wife's money, but he wishes her dead.

His wife is paying the school fees for the kids, but he's angry and wishes to ruin the business that provides her the money to do those things.

Those ones are the ones that decided to wash their dirty linens in the public.

There are thousands of homes like that.

And I am pretty sure that some of you married women reading this are experiencing same.

A man doesn't have to be rich before he marries a wife, but he must be ready to take up the financial responsibilities of his household.

That is how he must start.

He must do this with kindness & sacrifice, and with God on his side.

The wife must see that he has been able to show that he's the head of the home.

Now, this is where I want to land.

There are married men who have maintained this role for many years in their marriage, until things became tough financially.

That's life and it happens. And when this happens, it affords the man the opportunity to see who he is truly married to.

Would his wife change in her behavior towards him because she's genuinely concerned about him, or would she change because she is no longer interested in the marriage?

Will she step into his role temporarily as a support, or would she abandon him to his fate?

Whichever one it is, your prayer as a man is that God may continue to show you mercy and keep you in good health so that you'll continue to be the provider as much as you can.

Because once money is lacking, that marriage will never be the same.

Even if you're married to a good wife.

AJD.

[ʙɪɢ ᴇɴᴏ @Enojnr_]

Some of the realest people you’ll ever meet are loners.

[Vicky @virtuousvickki]

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[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I think I must have said this before.

1. Do not build in the same compound with your brother. If you must, make sure that there is a clear demarcation by fencing yours.

2. Do not contribute money together with your brother to build a house. Build yours and let him build his.

3. Do not abandon your own house project to renovate a family house, unless you have enough money to do so, or you are the first son.

4. Once you marry a wife, every property you acquire should be known to your wife. Do not say that you want to hide things from your wife while trusting your brother with all the details.

5. As long as you know that your wife is a good wife to you, tell her that if you suddenly die, she should immediately take all your important documents out of the house to a safe place. If you have more than one car before your demise, ask her to sell any cars that are no longer needed and keep the money for herself and your children.

6. If you're going to do any business with your brother, do so on clear legal and agreed terms. Treat him like a business partner, not like a blood brother.

If you doubt any of these things that I have said, screenshot it and send to your father.

End.

[Vicky @virtuousvickki]

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