"life isn't fair." then make it fair?????? like???? it is your job as authority figures to do so actually. why are we treating the pursuit of fairness and justice like its a juvenile and naive thing to want
a lot of people’s sense of self now is built on a foundation of envy, which is the decay from suppressing your desires. so many look to justify this avoidance of self by ascribing morality to their failures; then the misery compounds bc its rewarded with company on social media
Like y'all can only stomach uncertainty by telling yourself "it's the universe/soul contract/it's not meant for me/god has a plan" etc this is all the exact same thing. Reframing uncertainty as certainty helps you not feel the bad feeling and move on through suppression
Insane level of delusion. No different than religion, this type of stuff. Y'all just can't sit with hard feelings and especially uncertainty so you invented storeis that let you bypass feeling your feelings by telling yourself lies to be able to move on
when I meet highly well-adjusted people, few of them have gone through a spiritual discovery journey and many of them grew up in a safe environment with parents and a wider family who loved them deeply
resolvendo meus problemas igual um homem (bebendo, fumando, fazendo o que preciso fazer e reprimindo meus sentimentos negativos até o dia que misteriosamente vão encontrar meu carro e eu batidos contra uma árvore na estrada)
reminder that rape is used a weapon of war on a regular basis because it is one of the most demoralizing, terrifying and life-changingly traumatic things that can happen to a human being.