losses they've taken, the joys they've had—you will likely find it easier to love them and really forgive their errors against you.
You can only love people, you know
To love people, you must put effort into knowing them.
If you don't know them, you cannot really love them.
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When you get to know more about a person—their background, how they grew up, the family they've lived with, the difficulties they've had to endure, the work they've had to put in to be where they are currently, the fights they've fought, the sadness they've experienced, the..
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In the End.
A special thanks to my tailor, brother, and friend @AyomideAina17 for the tireless work he did in engaging my incessant style manipulations.
I really don't know what you're all waiting for before you hit him up for your clothes, though.
And which is easier to accept and practice? Self-centeredness or Self-sacrifice?
Another day, we shall talk about what doing good really means and why I think it is largely misunderstood. Meanwhile, here's a picture of me for no reason.
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The "People-pleaser"—A Fool or Something Else?
Consciously making people happy is not the same as being a needy people-pleaser. The difference is in the nuances.
However, they are both people-pleasers because they both strive to please others. One of the things that..
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So, while the popular opinion that you shouldn't please people, which initiated this long talk, sort of unintentionally [I think] speaks a little too much about the ills of people-pleasing, it often sends a wrong message and does more damage than good in society.
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