seeing my friends travel right after graduation, enjoying that adventure thrill with new friends, i'm happy for them. i'm sad for myself. when's my turn? 🥹 i da graduate juga, tapi parents strict. sedihhhhh
Normalize saying things like " Hey I really like you, but I'm healing right now and I am not in the best position to share myself with someone else!". Make it OK to be completely transparent about where you are in the moment. Allow people to meet you where you're at IF they +
Take a lot of pictures with your parents & siblings, go out, tell them your silly details, record their voices, angry, gentle, voice while waking you up, make tiny videos of food, events, random days, everyday. Death is cruelest Thing that happens, you can never know when you +
Salah satu rezeki terbesar dalam hidup I yang I selalu terlepas pandang is growing up in a happy family. We may not be happy all the time, but we will always have each other. And I think the worst thing that could happen to someone is growing in a broken family.
I used to think the saying ‘be kind’ was so cliché but as I grow older I realised that actually, a lot of people aren’t as kind as they should be. It’s actually hard for some to be genuinely kind. So whenever I receive kindness or am able to witness it, I’m so grateful for it.
Being in a healthy relationship has taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. When you genuinely love a person, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality