@_Lilsonny More like you like a woman that doesn’t give herself easily. Dates + gifts = courting a woman. Reward is better when you earn it.
Everyone screaming prostitution probably gives it up after a few text messages and some drinks lol!
@kiara7829 Stay away from anyone who is not your age until you are about 25 years old. Any man approaching a teenager/early 20’s is looking to use and abuse you. No amount of money is worth that. A genuine man will COURT you respectfully. 7+ dates before trying anything.
If discussion begins, it is not the absolute truth. Absolute truth is without beginning and therefore cannot be discussed. All discussion, then, is rooted in some form of illusion. All higher knowledge is found in silence.
When your loved one is feeling depressed or down, instead of asking them a whole bunch of questions, lovingly clean up their space without judgment. Make their space nice for them. Wash their bed sheets.
You ever notice the more authentic you become, the more beef you somehow collect? People start calling you difficult, arrogant, problematic, all sorts. Half the time you ain’t even done shit, you just stopped performing for people.
That’s what rattles them. You don’t laugh because everybody else laughed. You don’t suddenly love somebody because they’ve got followers, money or a name. You don’t change your whole fucking personality depending on who just walked into the room. If I fuck with you, I fuck with you. If I don’t, I’ll still respect you, but I’m not gonna stand there grinning in your face pretending we’re best mates. Fuck all that.
And without even trying, you start exposing people. You don’t have to call anybody fake. You don’t have to make some big speech. Just being comfortable in your own skin makes certain people twitch because they’ve spent years learning which mask to wear around which crowd.
That’s why fake circles survive on little silent deals. I cover your bullshit, you cover mine. I pretend I like you, you pretend you like me. Everybody knows everybody’s chatting shit and somehow nobody says it because keeping the little social club together matters more than being real.
Then somebody authentic walks in and fucks the whole rhythm up.
So yeah, sometimes the person who seems to have “beef with everybody” ain’t out here hunting problems. They just refuse to bend themselves into some fake little character to keep everybody comfortable.
Being liked by everybody costs something.
Usually yourself.