You guys act like making jokes about his sexuality or projecting onto him is harmless, but this is literally the exact end point of it. People feel entitled to cross boundaries and reduce him to hyper-sexualized content because some who claims to be his fan has normalized talking about him this way. You can't fuel the fire and then act confused when it burns.
It’s already inappropriate to speculate about someone’s sexuality based on who they spend time with, but reducing sn’s friendships to gayest/fruitiest and calling his friends twinks takes it even further. His friendships, mannerisms, or the people around him are not evidence of his sexuality, nor are they an invitation for you to sexualize him. Stop projecting your fantasies onto a real person and learn to respect boundaries.
I hate people who ship sunoo with any man who breathes around him. They claim to be a sunsun shipper but they always do this! Shipping him with a dancer, his friends, other idols he never interacted with. Why can’t he be friends with these people and let it be that?