If someone knows you’re already carrying the weight of grief, health struggles, hardship, or any major loss and still chooses to treat you cruelly, that goes beyond abuse. That’s not ignorance or carelessness... that’s straight malice.
When someone knows ur facing one of the hardest times of your life and still chooses to disrespect you or add to your stress, something darker is at play.. Cruelty in moments of deep vulnerabilitv is intentional. And when a person can hurt yu knowing how fragile yu are,that kind of betrayal changes how yu see them forever.
@unmaskingrachel @Ryan_Daigler You are correct, in fact they are capable of self awareness and change, albeit it’s on the rare.
What he is referring to are in the malignant variety. These people are long gone and will remain so until the end
A malignant narcissist will destroy an innocent person‘s life without the least bit of concern for the pain they’re causing for nothing more than to protect their ego.
And oftentimes they ENJOY seeing the pain.
Understand this: Destroying someone’s life is taking someone’s life.
They are getting as close to murdering a person as they can get because deep down they really do want to murder that person.
THIS IS GOING TO OFFEND A LOT OF NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE: It’s time you start admitting that you mistreated people and acted out of line, instead of being delusional and constantly acting like you were the victim. The truth is, your own actions put you in the position where you lost people who genuinely cared for you. You pushed away the ones who loved you, disrespected the ones who tried to help you, and then blamed everyone else when the consequences of your behavior caught up with you.
The moment you start respecting yourself, the wrong people begin to vanish.
They cannot survive in the presence of self-worth, because your boundaries expose their manipulation, your standards reveal their weakness, and your refusal to tolerate disrespect strips them of control.
Respecting yourself is the filter, those who belong will remain, those who don't will disappear.
I’ve lost everything and had to start over and rebuild myself so many times now I really don’t fucking care much about anything anymore except for truth and fucking justice. And love. Love is everything.
My energy is precious.
😮💨 that felt good to get out
I stay away from people who avoid self reflection and accountability. If you can't keep it real with yourself, there's no way you can keep it real with me.
i was literally dying and all anyone cared about was that i wasn’t dropping everything for them. being villainized for nearly losing my life by people clearly incapable of understanding the level of suffering i was enduring was enough to shut me off from people forever lol
You should never be expected to be the bigger person when you didn't create the discomfort in the first place. Too many people cause the chaos, cross the line, then want you to Swallow vour feelings just to keep the peace, Nah. Accountability matters.
You don’t need to name what they are to them for it to be real.
You already see it.
And walking away without explanation is often the strongest boundary you can set with someone who thrives on control.
Silence isn’t weakness here.
It’s withholding access. Don’t give them any more
A wise monk once said:
You'll be alone in the most difficult times of your life... These times will make you wise, mature, and fearless... They will strip away every illusion and show you who truly matters. You'll earn to be your own strength when no one shows up. In silence, you'll meet the strongest version of yourself. Pain will become your greatest teacher, and growth will become vour quiet reward.
One day, you'll look back and realize solitude was a blessing in disguise.