Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder.
It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD.
They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged.
People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves.
They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim.
They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off.
She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife.
Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her.
The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be.
The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral.
The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to.
TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.
@CoreOfMidas She is the devil. There is not a more purely evil person existing in this world at this moment. Anyone else who would get named still believes they’re doing what’s right or at worst a necessary evil. She doesn’t have that moral compass. She uses an unborn baby to be a sodomite.
@lightning_kf@CumComandant They mean Hana Macchia from Nijisanji. She is a popular Indonesian vtuber that streams in English and started over a year before HoloEN debuted.
@UmariTomoe Half of them seem to have shady things going down behind the scenes too. At this point whenever someone expresses interest in being a vtuber manager or starting their own vtuber group there’s a part of me that assumes it’s to pool a handful of vetted women to be potential gfs.
is anyone else kinda just... tired of all the new little vtuber corpos that spring up? most feel opportunistic rather than anything born from love for the medium. i wish people would give it a rest. 😔
📢 The very infamous woman harasser is back with a new account! Please block @S1nd1cta3 aka @Sindictae / Ghostar1s.
It is basically a femme presenting VTuber cannon event to have them appear in your DM's/Discord etc. asking to "be friends", then them not respecting your boundaries.
Please /ban these Discord User IDs:
🚫 207338256134569985
🚫 841920375871897601
Please read Hatsune_Mizu's document below with all the evidence of what he has done. Unfortunately she has updated her document with another 132 pages of things he has done JUST in the past month.
There are hundreds of accounts of VTubers who have had uncomfortable experiences with this user who doubles down that women "backstab" him and that he is never the problem.
VTubers stay vigilant, as well as artists if you see this new OC - I assume you wouldn't want to work with someone who is well known for being a creep.
They approach you wanting to be friends but usually have ulterior motives and ask to date you. Their offences range from being overly pushy to wishing death upon their exes, threats of revenge porn, saying they want to strangle/beat up/r*pe people for disrespecting them.
Remember, if you have a gut feeling that something is off, search their name. Chances are others have stepped forward about them. Tell others and NEVER feel guilty that you should keep talking to someone when you don't want to. Your boundaries are important. Your safety is important.
@elvenmaidinn It’s the same argument with people who say pirating games takes sales away from publishers. If someone needs to use AI in their thumbnails they wouldn’t be able to commission an artist to begin with. The important thing is Miia’s moving away from it now she has the funds to do so
@matchakodesu He’s pretty known for clout chasing and trying to score easy hookups from any female vtuber that will respond so I’d say you dodged a bullet.
One of the most disappointing things I've had to witness was the fall-off of Vtubers. It genuinely had so much potential, but EN Vtubers decided it needed to be a platform to gain control of, and kick out/alienate anyone who disagrees with their politics. And that's not even getting into the sexualization, how THE FUCK did having orgy parties, fansly's and OF's become so normalized in what is supposed to be streaming for people who wanted to stay anonymous??? Vtubing genuinely lost what it used to be. A cool way for people to stay anonymous while streaming. Now it's just goonslop and politicalslop.
OnlyFans & Fansly are quietly ruining the VTuber space.
What started as creative anime avatars, gaming, singing, and fun personalities is turning into a softcore pipeline. New “VTubers” debut with heavy NSFW models and immediately push subs, PPV, and lewd content instead of building actual streaming skills or lore.
The cute idol/waifu culture that made VTubing special is getting drowned in low-effort coomer bait. Talented SFW creators get outpaced by those who just sell thighs and moans. The barrier to entry dropped from “be entertaining” to “have a sexy model and an OF link in bio.”
The audience is shifting too.
Real fans who loved the hobbyist energy are leaving, replaced by people treating every VTuber like premium camgirls with extra steps.
VTubing is becoming less about virtual performance and more about virtual OnlyFans with better production value.
We’re losing the soul of it.
If you have the gift of being anonymous as a VTuber. Do not ever reveal your true face
What it leads to is the following:
Doxing
Stalking
Harassment
Putting your family in danger
Putting your career in danger
If you think what I said above is impossible, you are naive.
@thepancakington@KitsuraNines@TheGayPres Your whole account is you antagonizing people. You've got no right to throw shade at anybody. You also mocked the suicide of a 14 year old so don't pretend you care about minors now.
@fleshsimulator I’ve noticed whenever these kinds of irony poisoned losers realize they’re in over their heads they always backpedal with “It’s just a joke bro! I have no agency, it’s your fault I’m an antagonistic retard!” You’ve got to make an example of idiots like this.
Hi,
Just wanna let you know that if anyone told you that they have naked picture of me (especially if they speak french/bad english), it's childporn. I got the problem again today on my discord server with french new members sending it to my community.
Please, do not look at it even if you are curious or hate me, i'm a child on it, my ex-boyfriend leaked it and the pictures got sold on the darkweb.
Thank you for you understanding, Ratbros!
I am not sorry for this following post.
Never trust an anti. Not even once.
When you do, it gives them discretion. It helps them blend in more. You may not completely agree with one person or another, but we've seen what happens when antis get their way. They will stab you in the back when it's most convenient for them. They're tourists mostly, just well hidden. You think they're on your side? they're talking behind your back as we speak.
@Kreampuff__@elochitv $800 or $600 doesn’t matter. You agreed to the commission. There should at least be something to show for it after two years. I would recommend making Elochi’s commission top priority or refunding her ASAP if you won’t be able to do it in a timely manner.