💁🏻♀️"mau potong model apa kak?"
👩🏻"gatau kak bingung. pengen rapihin aja, tapi gak betah juga rambut panjang. di bob aja kali ya?"
💁🏻♀️"ihh kak jangann.. sayang banget rambutnya udah bagus panjang gitu. aku rapihin aja ya biar lebih ringan"
posting dagangan di twitter gaada yang julid, tapi susah lakunya. beda dengan dagang di tiktok yg lebih cepet laku tapi banyak juga anomali2 julid yg komen salty dengan kata2 andalan "ngapain dibeli kalo ujung2nya dijual"
ya suka2 gue lah puki, barang2 gue napa elu yang ribet💩
I’ve seen men walk away from 5–10 year relationships, then turn around and marry a woman they’ve known for 6 months suddenly doing all the things their ex begged for years. Word of advice, stop preaching to these men. They hear you. He’s just never going to become the man you want him to be because you’re not the woman he wants to be with. People don’t change for love in general, they change for who they truly want.
Men will cheat on you with the very kind of woman they warned you about. The one they said was “too friendly,” “too wild,” or “not their type.” And yet, that’s exactly who they run to when they think you won’t find out. It’s almost ironic… they’ll make you feel insecure for no reason, only to end up proving why you felt uneasy in the first place. The truth is, some men don’t want peace...they crave attention. They’ll leave loyalty for lust, substance for surface, and real love for temporary validation. And the worst part? They’ll come back acting confused, like “you’re” the one who changed. No, she didn’t change. You just couldn’t handle a real one.
A lot of men are not being ‘disrespected’ in their relationship, they are just being accurately confronted for the first time in their life.
If every time she names a pattern you hear it as an attack, you will keep turning ordinary feedback into destructive arguments. It is easier to label her as ‘disrespectful’ than is it to admit you have never learned how to be in a relationship where your comfort is not the main priority.
You didn’t just hurt her.
You hurt her while she was already fighting things you knew nothing about.
Family stress. Loneliness. Anxiety she never talked about.
And instead of being her safe place… you became another thing she had to survive.
That’s not a mistake. That’s a failure to show up.
Emotionally unavailable men will ruin you.
And I'm not saying that lightly. I'm saying it from a place of watching too many women with big hearts and soft souls break themselves trying to love men who simply can't love them back.
Stay away from men who think emotional connection is optional, who call you "too sensitive.
who make you feel like you're asking for too much simply because you want love that feels present intentional, and real. Because the truth is, no matter how loving, loyal, or patient you are you cannot pour into a man who's emotionally empty. it's about him. His fears.
His refusal to do the inner work.
You deserve someone who's available
Your softness, your empathy, they deserve a home in a man who's ready to receive, nurture and retur them. Don't waste your heart on a man who's numla to love.
Save your heart for someone who doesn't just want it but knows how to hold it.
Baru beneran ngerti lagi terkait ini setelah hubungan w baru berakhir bbrp minggu lalu.
Kadang w msh nyalahin diri sendiri pun krn mungkin bikin pasangan kecewa + hubungan gagal, tp dipikir lg emg ini udh keputusan terbaik.
Moga2 w ketemu laki yg bs tone down survival mode w
In an abusive relationship, you either suppress your feelings to avoid conflict, or you express them and become the problem in their eyes. This is emotional manipulation.
You call her toxic now.
But you met her when she was kind, open, and trusting. Before the lies. Before the betrayal. Before she had to protect herself from you. She became guarded because you kept hurting her.
She became reactive because you kept crossing lines. She became tired because she kept choosing you while you chose yourself. That wasn't toxicity. That was damage.
And expecting her to stay soft after everything you put her through is the real denial. You didn't lose a good woman. You changed her, then blamed her for the result.
You broke her trust, you bruised her heart, and now you're shocked she's not the same person you fell for.
Newsflash: she's not the one who's changed; your perspective has. You're seeing the effects of your actions and calling it her problem.
She's not toxic; she's wounded.
And instead of owning up to the hurt you caused, you're gaslighting her into thinking she's the flawed one.
Own it. You hurt someone who loved you, and now she's protecting herself from further pain.
That's not toxicity; that's self-preservation.
And if you can't see the damage you've done, that's on you.
NEVER TRUST NO MAN WHO gets upset over your reactions to his actions! You got mad because of what he did & now he’s mad because you reacted. Then he tries to gaslight you by saying you’re always arguing or creating negativity. No, that’s MANIPULATION. That’s narcissistic behavior. You don’t get to hurt people & then play the VICTIM when they call you out 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️