It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the other person. As women, we need to stop letting people who donโt deserve us define our worth. The first step is walking away the moment you realize someone doesnโt love or value you enough. The right one will. No stress.
Babes have this thing where we tell our girls how this man did sth and it gave you the ick,in the middle of narrating the story,you realise, the issue was, you just didn't like the guy enough,so nothing he does is good enough, cause if it was someone else you acc liked? No issue.
It's actually quite simple.
If I'm the one engaging in it, there's no such thing as too much PDA.
If I'm not, you two are doing too much and need to get a room.
One day Tu mtatwambia ukweli that you hate women instead of all the triangulation mmekuwa mkifanya๐๐ imebaki kidogo hivi mconfess it's just hetero sexuality ndio hufanya you try to tolerate women in your lives and I need us women to kill that ego that makes us feel needed