A man married for 15 years says he has to fantasize about other women before he can remain sexually aroused and perform for his wife during sex.
He adds: "I no longer find my wife attractive."
He asked a sex therapist what to do about it.
Here's how the therapist replied...
UNFORTUNATELY, the formula to a healthy marriage is ...
1.Communicating even when you don’t feel like it.
2.Staying loyal even during hard seasons.
3.Apologizing when you are wrong.
4.Controlling your ego during arguments.
5.Continuing to date your spouse after marriage.
6.Learning how to listen instead of always defending yourself.
7.Protecting your marriage from outside opinions.
8.Being patient with each other’s flaws.
9.Solving problems before resentment builds up.
10.Respecting each other even when angry.
11.Spending quality time together without phones.
12.Supporting each other during stressful periods.
13.Keeping intimacy and affection alive.
14.Managing money like a team.
15.Choosing peace over unnecessary drama.
16.Growing together instead of growing apart.
17.Waking up every day and choosing each other again.
Strong marriages are built on consistency, maturity, and effort.
Hello @MinistryofTID. When will the companies hired to resurface the Bulawayo-Maphisa road return to complete the Matopos road? This was a tarred road before April 18 and they left us with this dust. I don't think this is how legacy projects should look.
When Allyson Felix became pregnant, Nike threatened to cut her sponsorship contract by almost 70% because of her pregnancy.
They told her:
“You should know your place… and just run.”
Amid all this, at seven months pregnant, Allyson had to undergo an emergency C-section due to a serious complication.
Her baby girl spent over a month in the neonatal intensive care unit.
But two years later, Allyson qualified for her fifth Olympic Games, with her daughter in the stands cheering her on.
Allyson left Nike.
And she founded her own shoe brand: Saysh One.
At the Tokyo Olympics, she ran wearing her own sneakers, carrying the motto:
“I know exactly where my place is.”
With 11 medals, she surpassed Carl Lewis and became the most decorated American track and field athlete in history.
And to all women, she gave this message:
“I raised my voice and built this company for you, so that you’ll never have to train at 4:30 in the morning, five months pregnant, just to hide it from your sponsor.” ❤️
One of Elon's most vocal critics just bought a Cybertruck.
Brian Krassenstein, who has spent years publicly clashing with @elonmusk, announced the purchase yesterday.
His reason had nothing to do with politics.
He has a young family and the Cybertruck is the only pickup truck in America to hold both an IIHS Top Safety Pick+ award and a perfect 5-star NHTSA rating simultaneously.
When your fiercest critics are buying your product because the data leaves them no choice, that's a different kind of win.
A school janitor, in 1985 named Gabe Sonnier, was cleaning when a principal walked over to him and said, "I'd rather see you grading papers than picking them up."
So at the age of 39, Gabe started studying and earned a degree in teaching. He was eventually hired as the principal of the same school he cleaned for 27 years
Cost of TV License in Southern Africa per year. @edmnangagwa@ZBCNewsonline@HonZhemuSoda@zinaraZW What is cheap in Zimbabwe compared to other @SADC_News countries?
a) Malawi - $6
b) Botswana - $7
c) Namibia - $11
d) Zambia - $11
e) South Africa - $14
f) Zimbabwe ZBC - $100
Cost of passports in Southern Africa;
1. Angola - $5
2. Eswatini - $10
3. Zambia - $13
4. Botswana - $20
5. Namibia - $28
6. South Africa - $33
7. Mozambique - $43
8. Zimbabwe - $170
Salaries of civil servants in some African countries per month:
1. Botswana $1000-$2000
2. South Africa $1200-$1500
3. Zambia $850-$1500
4. Namibia $1100-$1800
5. Zimbabwe $250-$350
Why @ZANUPF_Official@mpslswzim
This is so hypnotic. I got off to this vid really good this morning. Seeing that pussy slowly open up, lips blossom, swollen, sensitive, engorged. Just day dreaming of going down on you babe and feeling your clit throb against my wet warm tongue 🥰
Mbeki has recounted how Nigeria, in 1990, persuaded Mugabe to postpone Zimbabwe’s land reform programme in support of South Africa’s transition from apartheid.
Mbeki explained that Nigeria feared that an abrupt Zimbabwean land reform would spook apartheid criminals, and undermine the fragile negotiations between the regime and the ANC.
Zimbabwe duly delayed its reforms, allowing South Africa’s talks to proceed uninterrupted.
Yet the ANC chose to betray the liberation struggle by failing to demand immediate land redistribution as a core element of the negotiated political settlement.
Zimbabwe later pursued fast-track expropriations from 2000 onward, while South Africa clung to the “willing buyer, willing seller” model despite its evident failure in Zimbabwe.
Decades later, we still lack meaningful land restitution.
We are led by fools.
"Unskilled men with no skill, none whatsoever say somebody took their job, The Only Skill They know Is to Drink Intelezi & Impesu and all of that nonsense and want to pretend like they're revolutionarys" EFF President Julius Malema
"I don't want your vote if you behave like that take them away if the MK wants it give it to them" @Julius_S_Malema
Julius Malema 🗣
“I will never hate Africans for votes,” and emphasizes dignity and humanity by insisting, “I will never deny an African child education or a pregnant woman healthcare in South Africa.”
You are mocking and celebrating the demise of the EFF, which stands for black economic emancipation after centuries of imperial rule, yet you remain silent about white parties and organisations like AfriForum that perpetuate politics aimed at keeping you poor under colonial conditions. It says a great deal about you. A black man celebrating the demise of a black voice fighting for black emancipation in 2026? Yoh!!!
Day 2. Reject CAB3.
You are not powerless.
Your power is in saying NO to every effort to take power away from you.
Write. Sign. File. Then copy us at [email protected] so your voice is counted.
Not by the gun. Not by violence. Not by blood. By the will of the people.
#RejectCAB3 #DefendTheConstitution
The promotion of these lieutenant colonels was orchestrated by Sean Mnangagwa in an effort to sideline veteran generals and senior officers. Sean is creating parallel structures which is reporting directly to him bypassing military https://t.co/LCUqh0xKTK ED at your own risk ⛔️