You tell people the RAW, UNFILTERED TRUTH about the dating market and instead of facing reality, they tell you your mouth is smelling!!!
“Men dey!!!”
“Women no dey finish!!!”
Everybody is shouting that good men and good women are scarce, yet everybody wants a partner they are not even ready to be!!!
Social media and stupid teachings from feminism and traditional men have poisoned people’s understanding of love!!!
Most people have replaced commitment with materialism, sacrifice with selfishness and genuine love with lust!! Everybody wants to enjoy dating and marriage, but nobody wants to do the dirty work that keeps a relationship/marriage alive!!!
Again, if your goal is to build a healthy family and raise children in a solid, united home, you must be ready to kill your pride, bury your selfishness and abandon this foolish spirit of self-preservation!!!
YOUNG MEN!!!
You will lay the bed…
You will bathe your children…
You will wash plates…
You will cook when necessary…
You will sacrifice your comfort, your time, your money, and your energy!!!
You are not less of a man because you serve your family! You are a failure when your ego becomes more important than your home!!! This is what you are even called to do!!!
YOUNG WOMEN!!!
You may have to pay rent…
You will cook even when you are tired…
You will spend your own money to keep the family running…
You will sacrifice your personal comfort…
You will carry responsibilities you never imagined you would have to carry…
You are not less of a woman because you provide! You are not a fool because you sacrifice for the family you claim to love!!!
RESPONSIBILITY DOES NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR NATURE, YOUR MOOD, YOUR GENDER OR HOW YOU WERE RAISED!!!
When your family needs you, you show up…
When the bills come, somebody must pay…
When the baby cries, somebody must wake up…
When the house is a mess, somebody must clean it…
When life gets hard, somebody must stand firm…
You cannot keep shouting “This is not my role!” and using social media as your standard while drowning in loneliness and helplessness.
You cannot demand sacrifice while worshipping your comfort…
You cannot demand loyalty while your pride makes you impossible to live with…
Drop your pride!!!
Drop the entitlement!!!
Drop the social media nonsense!!!
Drop feminism!!!
Drop useless culture and tradition!!!!
Stop keeping score of every little sacrifice!!!
Hopefully, you listen to me while you still have time!!!
Change or die!!!!!!!!!