Stop dating neurodivergent women if you refuse to understand how deeply inconsistency affects them. Mixed signals, emotional unpredictability, and changing expectations aren’t harmless they can be genuinely distressing. Empathy isn’t optional in a healthy relationship.
Whats the mental illness when people tell you to have a good day over and over again and you start thinking they’re conspiring to ensure you have bad ones?
brands hopping on the melanie trend is harmful and distasteful. it doesn’t matter how much she should leave him, this level of peer pressure is not normal and could trigger intense shame and anxiety. it’s not supportive. she is a real person you see crying every episode. this is her life, not a clout opportunity.
Told my longtime hairdresser I’d been diagnosed with bpd. Without a beat she said, “Mmm I doubt it. Every client that tells me she has a mental illness is getting a divorce next time I see her.” Didn’t make sense to me at the time but…