Kenya hosts millions of them from South Sudan, Ethiopia, Eritrea, Somalia, Rwanda, Burundi and even Nigeria yet we don't go about beating them on the streets.
The crowd will forget you no matter what you do. So, the only real question is whether you spent your years chasing their approval or actually living for yourself.
MA
You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.