It’s called "reactive abuse." Pushing a man into a corner, attacking his insecurities, constantly manufacturing chaos, and the split second he loses his cool and reacts, you pull out the victim card and completely absolve yourself of the provocation. We hold men accountable for their reactions, but completely ignore the women who engineered the breakdown.
no disrespect to wizard who believe themselves to be wiser than the council but that could never be me. i am far too wise to do something so foolish. perhaps even wiser than the council