Firstborn daughters may have a mean/tough demeanor; however, this is usually only a defensive mechanism because they've had to be strong for a long time. When you get to know them, you realise that they are the softest, kindest, and most loving people you will ever meet.
I’m going to look back at the year 2025 and be reminded that it was a catalyst for me to enter the best years of my life. What a pivotal and lovely time I’m having.
michelle obama said you have to know how to exist when life is just life.
she said “sometimes it’s like, this is not exciting. i’m not winning. i’m not losing. i’m not achieving. it’s not a party. i don’t have friends around everyday.
most of life is just the nothing in the middle. most of life is just ordinary. you gotta be happy being a little bored.” and I felt that.
It does… but only if you do the self work. Unlearn the stuff you were taught growing up because most of it comes from unhealed people around us. Learn about financial literacy, go to therapy if you need to, travel & make memories even if you have to do it alone or with 1 person.
Remember: perception is reality. Create the life you really want for yourself. Don’t worry about who’s looking, watching or cheering for you. Your tribe and support system will naturally build itself.
Oh… take ur vitamins, drink water and mind ur business.
Most importantly, keep God first and everything will work itself out 🤗