Ppl on dating apps aren’t looking for love, they’re looking for void fillers. Yeah, there are exceptions. But the majority are running from things they’re still tangled in & numbing the stings from the past.
If you’re someone who likes depth. You’re more prone to attracting avoidants. They’ll bring intellect & at first it’ll feel like you’re compatible. Until you realise you’re engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.
If you want to see the depth of someone’s emotional intelligence, confront them on something they did. Gently, with love. Not from a place of blame, but from a desire to be understood and met. Then watch what they do. How they respond will tell you everything.
Long term relationships really come with a lot of forgiveness..... don’t think you’re about to have 3+ perfect years with someone. We all have flaws and toxic traits so find someone you can grow and become better with.
- Who you decide to marry is one of the most important decisions in life. This person will either help build you or break you. Choose wisely.
- Look around the room, executional skills are incredibly rare. Everyone has great ideas and ambitions - few have the ability to take massive action and execute on them.
- Everyone faces storms in life. Don’t wait for the storm to be over, learn to dance in the rain. Embrace the suck, revel in it.
- Life will punch you in the mouth. Pick yourself back up. When you are walking through hell - keep walking.
- Grit, resilience, and determination will take you further than some fancy degree.
- Have kids, go to church, buy land, build a family. Focus on your legacy.
@stillnothawkize Most of them scouts are just like the typical fan. Sat behind a screen and watched a lot of film/tv. They have the same opinions and outlooks everyone else has
Iowa up 13 on Iowa St lost 20-19
Iowa up 10 on UCLA lost 20-17
Iowa up 10 on Mizzou, lost 27-24
Conservative football keeps Iowa from ever taking the next step. Retire Kirk
Kirk Ferentz is optimistic about the direction of the transfer portal, but is still hoping for more structure similar to the NFL:
"If the coffee's not good on Tuesday I can't just leave and go to the next team because my feelings got hurt about the coffee..."