@moveimgaytarist living in MM doesn't guarantee a person to be good at tagalog. there are still factors that have yet to be confirmed, whether OP was isolated, homeschooled, etc. i think using MM as an example also ignores the diverse communities that could possibly have less tagalog speakers.
@SIRAKINAH like they could've given some advice, maybe try to understand their situation? no, they instantly get to attacking the person. isnt that fucking amazing?
@LauraSakuraki like ?? not everyone grew up in the same household, teachings, and influences as you even if they're 28 maybe they're just so used to english speaking that it's a deeply rooted habit in said person? i feel like people just jump way too quickly to conclusions just to attack others
@laetitia0167 it'd be better if people actually tried to understand someone else's situation instead of "i can do it so why can't you?" or the like, not everybody lives the same lives under the same circumstances, influences, and teaching.
@laetitia0167 mostly watching television and it feels like they didn't make an effort to help me understand tagalog. i try my best to learn but i struggle nonetheless. but just because i am not fluent in tagalog as i am in english doesn't mean i should be treated like shit
@reckno64 i feel like everyone siding with psp or chibi just throws out slurs and attacks the instead of the actual argument, it's convincing me less when people act like this
@MilkBandito69@rts6jdrj9871@AndreaHunter88@LordYoshiZ and this is the part where i say i win then, gg
facts make for a better argument rather than the incessant and emotional wailing of a person who doesn't know how to argue
@MilkBandito69@rts6jdrj9871@AndreaHunter88@LordYoshiZ another statement based on evidence, which is just immature. dont attack me personally, because i never did that to you nor will i try to because that's going as low as you we're arguing about a situation between two different people that does not involve me or you, stay focused.
yeah yeah, derail the argument, block me, this wasn't about me in the first place, too bad you cant figure that out. throwing slurs had to be your thing eh?
@MilkBandito69@rts6jdrj9871@AndreaHunter88@LordYoshiZ and also about the "no sane woman would do that" comment
if so, no sane man either would try to slash at himself violently and cause another person to be harmed in the midst of his act nor would he try to ruin public opinion of deme after the break up.
@MilkBandito69@rts6jdrj9871@AndreaHunter88@LordYoshiZ focusing on one bad reaction in a moment of extreme stress doesn't change the broader dynamic. both of them engaged in reactive, unhealthy behavior thatβs exactly why looking at the whole history matters more than picking out individual moments.
@MilkBandito69@rts6jdrj9871@AndreaHunter88@LordYoshiZ now now, keep your claims within the topic now. this isn't about who im defending. explaining context isn't an endorsement of bad behavior. the point is that you can't evaluate someone's reaction today while completely erasing the severe physical history that built up to it.