my approach to dating these days: I may like or love you, but I cannot love you like my life depends on it, or like my world will fall apart if you leave. I acknowledge that your leaving will hurt, take time and resources to recover from; that’s a cost I seldom have to bear.
why would i spend my beautiful lifetime at war with my body when i could just love it, give it offerings and treat it like the most precious gift and sacred temple that it is?
Being 30 is so funny tbh because it’s so obvious to me now that my frontal lobe is fully developed. I used to be such an incredible little dumb ass. My only regret of my 20’s was how much I centered my life around relationships and not myself.
Today I should be graduating with an LLM in law technology &Innovation from @UniStrathclyde Scotland! However the UK embassy in Kenya decided I was a high risk of not returning even after leaving once my program was done with 4 Months left on my Visa ! Congratulations to me!