If you have to choose between timid and arrogant, go with arrogant. Over time it will win. You will scare some women and excite others. You have to be willing to scare some of them to ever excite any of them.
I think something nefarious driving the casual sex discourse is how much the algorithms love feeding certain people, especially young shut-ins, Horror Stories about dating, sex, street encounters, etc. which fuels something akin to True Crime Brain
We listened to Clavicular on Red Scare, 30 minutes of it. He sounds like a complete dope until he starts talking about skull anatomy, cheekbone to jaw ratios and then you see he means it, he studies these things and is into something. The rest of it- how many times are we going to rehash the manosphere.
He’s an offshoot of Mystery, the autistic flavor of game, the obscene not the seductive, modeling and mathematizing the pussy, exoteric processes and measurable benchmarks, and that shit never worked for me and in fact was the opposite. When I read Neil Strauss’ The Game and tried to “sarge” in Los Angeles nightclubs it was like waxing my dick and balls dipping them in ice water and showing them on the Jumbotron. Pussy is magic, the opposite of autism. Pussy recoils from the rational. That’s the problem with Hoe Math too. That’s why he went crazy. You either understand hoes or you understand math.
I have a hot take…. I don’t believe these men are such smart master manipulators. I believe a lot women try to force some shit that isn’t there and men gonna let them do that.
Of course we do, we'd love to be manipulated by women in a similar vein to how women want a guy that can take charge for them
modern women = not very subtle
modern men = not very strong
i think courage and freedom are deeply contagious. when i see someone being unusually brave or free, some part of me thinks ‘i’m allowed to do that too’
and then someone sees you do it and feels the same. we give each other permission to be through example