@Mayowahh@dammiedammie35 More reason I have refused to watch the video, I just make sure to scroll, most things we see as normal in this day and age are indeed not normal at all
THE DARK SIDE OF JAPA OR NO JAPA: THE ENDANGERED CHILDREN (PART 3).
For the benefit of those trying to destroy their family by using the Social Services, the police, their social status, and the immigration authority to settle in the country, your children will usually be at risk.
Raising children alone in this country is not easy. I can tell you from personal experience. Statistics show that most of the drug users, prisoners, and young people with mental health issues are from single-parent or broken homes. So, if you are a single parent, the children are at the most risk, especially the boys.
The presence of a good father in the house cannot be underestimated. When our children were younger, my wife would tell them that she would report them to Daddy and they would behave themselves. Who do you report the children to when you have kicked their father into touch?
When you kick your partner out, you will have to concede to some indiscipline for the children to curry some favor from them. You do not want them to go to their father and you spoil them little by little. You have some little husbands at home and you worship them. They become little gods.
You also want to have fun with your new lover and you give the children extra freedom or you neglect them inadvertently.
You will have to give them more liberty than normal and leave them at home without control. That is how they become exposed to adult films, teenage sex, and other vices.
Recently, I got a call from a distressed woman who caught their 15-year-old brought from Africa recently having sex in her family home. She raised the alarm, rebuked the girl and she ran out of the house to the social services. She has not been back.
The woman kicked the man out the moment they got to the UK and she also lost her 15-year-old daughter who told her father everything mummy had been doing including noises when making love with her boyfriend!
What did she gain? The law that you use to get advantage is the same law that will work against you. The law often takes the children from you or puts them in prison.
Do not deprive your children of their father or paint your wife as an irresponsible mother to gain control of the children. It will end in tears. In any case, which sensible father will abandon his children?
Listen closely, the law that says you can’t touch your children is the same law that gives them a criminal record and puts them in prison. Once a child enters the criminal justice system, there is usually no way back.
Let me close with the implications of criminality for an immigrant child who is yet to become a British citizen and is sentenced to a prison sentence of 12 months or more, he will face deportation from the UK and if deported, may never be back.
Did I say that children raised by both parents do not have issues? I did not say that.
The effects of parents separating have an everlasting impact on most children as they usually develop mental health issues. Let me ask you, what would you gain by destroying your children’s lives?
I forgot to add that it started from parental conflicts where ego met with ego. Most of these things start with association. Bad friends, bad associations, poor education, and lack of understanding.
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