somebody's side because of the relationship that you hold with each other.. that's why people be so fucked up in the head because the people close to them are not telling them their mistakes! When I even speak about a situation I'm in, I say what you did AND what I did (2/3)
As you get older you have to learn how to see AND understand BOTH SIDES. I personally feel like sometimes people may not like to talk to me because I'm not biased. Idc if you my friend, family, or lover. If you're wrong, YOURE WRONG. And i will tell you that! You can't take (1/3)
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others