Hello everyone! I'm back with another solo cover!!
This time I sang a Korean song 'Best Luck' from the drama 'It's Okay, That's Love'!
I worked really hard on this and I'm very happy with the result, so please give it a listen, thank you!
https://t.co/A7FIox3v2E
I feel like real lovers are okay with being single. I’d rather do my own thing until the universe aligns and connects me with 𝘵𝘩𝘦 one rather than just get with 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦one for the sake of not feeling lonely.
Some of you don't need to end the relationship, you need to downgrade it. One of the biggest mistakes I think we're making with our relationships is believing that we only have two options. Staying close or cutting someone off. But there is a third option that we don't talk about nearly enough, and that's that you can reorganize any relationship you have in your life. Maybe this person can't be the close friend you hoped that they would be. Maybe a relationship with a sibling, for example, is never going to have the emotional intimacy you wish it had. And maybe there are certain subjects you simply cannot discuss with one of your parents without the relationship going off the rails. And trust me, I know that there can be real grief in accepting these things, but accepting the other person's limitations doesn't have to end the relationship. You can instead downgrade it and maybe that means you just see them less often. Maybe instead of spending an entire weekend together you meet for lunch or maybe you stop going to this person for emotional support, but you can still enjoy going to a baseball game together. Or maybe there are a few subjects you just respectfully decide are simply off limits. You're not pretending that problems don't exist, you're just changing the conditions of the relationship so that the parts that do work have a chance to survive. And I think that's a really important part of social health that we just are not talking about enough, because part of having a rich, connected life is accepting that not every relationship is going to become what we hoped it would be. And not every relationship needs to become closer and not every difficult relationship needs to disappear sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is accept the relationship for what it can be, limitations in all instead of ending it because it couldn't become what you wanted it to be.
Last night a girl told me she pays attention to whether the people she dates nurture anything in their lives, like a plant, a pet, a project. It’s useful evidence that someone can sustain care over time. Relationships are also living things that need tending
i really hate the type of person that secretly resents you and builds up all these negative opinions about ur character then waits until an argument to unload everything they’ve apparently been holding onto for a very long time!!
i think the problem with Taylor's love songs after she started dating Travis and TLOAS overall is she doesn't convey her emotions to the lyrics anymore. like we see she's in love and all that, but we don't hear it. she doesn't tell us how she feels like she used to in her previous albums, it doesn't feel real. she just focuses on the fact that she's with someone and that someone and her get a lot of hate and she's always like "fuck you haters!". like what are we supposed to do with this information... there's literally nothing relatable about it.
is it normal to feel kinda alone but to also not really wanna befriend anyone anymore bc you only ever click with like 1 person every 5 yrs and you can't maintain any friendships meaningfully for more than like 2 yrs so you've kinda just given up