@elonmusk has done so well in calling out against racism towards whites in South Africa, but here is Peter Botha the last PM of South Africa’s speech depicting core racism towards blacks. By this we can say discrimination towards any group should not be encouraged whether towards the black race, white race or yellow race. We are all humans
Please help!! We have found 9 baby rats inside our shed whilst having a clear out unfortunately we also found the mother rat deceased, doesn’t look like mother has been gone long but I have no idea how long they will last, would anyone who knows how to be able to take them in?
"We met on Facebook. What started as a casual "Hello" grew into a deep friendship. We are both Nigerians, and for two years, we dated online, sharing our dreams through video calls and late night chats.
The love was so strong that we decided to get married. Since she was in the UK and I was in Nigeria, she told me to go and see her family. Her younger sister stood in for her, and we did the traditional marriage rites. My wife is a golden soul. Even while I was still in school, she was sending money to support me. With her help, I built a beautiful house for us back home. She didn't stop there she sponsored two of my siblings through school, and today, they are both government nurses.
After my graduation, she processed my visa. God so kind, it was granted. I moved to the UK to join her, and she immediately helped me get a job as a Care Assistant. Life was like a dream But one evening, while we were watching TV, everything changed. She suddenly fell from the sofa. Her body was shaking violently, and foam was coming out of her mouth. I had never seen anything like it in my life.
I was screaming for help, thinking the worst had happened. When she finally came around, she was crying. She confessed that she has been living with epilepsy for many years. She kept it a secret because she feared I would leave her or that people back home would say she is "spiritually attacked."
I want to leave, but I am stuck. My stay in this country is tied to her I am here on a Dependant Visa. In the UK, if the person you are depending on informs the Home Office that the relationship has ended, your visa can be cancelled, and you could face deportation. I am frustrated and confused. She has done so much for me & my family, but my mind is made up I can’t stay. But how do I leave without losing my right to stay here? I've already called home & explain to my family they're equally as shock & angry just as i I'm. I feel like I was tricked
Please keep my Identity hidden"
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South Africans representing the country at the International Mathematics Olympiad vs the South Africans protesting for foreigners to go home…make of this what you will
This morning something happened in my house that really surprised me.
I wanted to bath my little daughter because my wife was busy in the kitchen cooking. Just normal father duties, nothing serious. I carried my daughter and went to the bathroom.
Suddenly my wife rushed out of the kitchen like there was an emergency. The way she ran, you would think someone shouted that a bomb was about to drop.
She looked at me with very serious eyes and said I should stop immediately. According to her, I have no right to bath our female child and she had warned me about it before. She even said this would be the last warning and that I wouldn’t like what would happen if I tried it again.
Honestly, I just stood there confused, looking like a complete fool because I have never heard of any law in Ghana that says a father cannot bath his own daughter.
Now I’m really wondering…
Is there actually any rule or cultural belief that says a father shouldn’t bath his daughter? Or is this just something some families believe in?
Because in my mind, taking care of your child boy or girl is part of being a parent.
I’m genuinely asking:
Fathers here, have you ever bathed your daughter before?
Mothers, do you think it’s wrong?
Let’s talk. I want to understand if I’m missing something here. 🤔