@Mageba_wav #provide and #protect is fundamental even to his own psyche and survival. He was going to leave you eventually. His lag may have been self-sabotage. Watch him pick up the pace now.
@Mageba_wav This relationship should have ended at year 3, if a man cannot make the commitment to marry their "girlfriend" and earn enough to cover the family during their wives downtime (pregnancy, childcare, family duties) they are failing both culturally and in the rule book. He did this.