Once a nigga show you he willing to go against you for the next bitch, it shouldnโt be nothing else after that. At that point, youโve seen all you need to see. ๐ฏ
If you really locked in with somebody, you move different. Yeah, you grown, you can do whatever, but some things you just donโt do outta respect for your person. Ainโt about them controlling you or being insecure, itโs about loyalty and boundaries. Before you pull a move, ask yourself if youโd be cool with them doing it to you. If not, sit yo ass down .
Some cheating men donโt realize they played with an anointed woman until life starts feeling different. ๐ญ๐ Suddenly the money ainโt moving right, sleep ainโt hitting the same, stress is through the roof, relationships falling apart, and nothing seems to be going your way. ๐ Now you sitting there wondering, โWhat the hell is going on?โ Boy you thought you were just betraying a loyal woman. Whole time, God was watching how you handled somebody He trusted you to love. ๐ฎโ๐จ๐๐พ You didnโt just play with her heart. You played with something God was protecting. ๐ฏ
The HIV, HPV, AIDS, Herpes, & Chlamydia rate is way too damn high to be having hoes, side pieces, and unprotected sex with random people just cause you're "horny". Sex requires TRUST. You're trusting another individual with your body, and essentially your life.
the hardest part isnโt taking care of a baby.
itโs watching your partner still have the freedom to choose, while your choices revolve around everyone else.
thatโs the kind of unfair no one prepares you for.
I told my therapist one day:
โIโm not depressedโฆ I just donโt want to be here anymore.โ
She didnโt flinch, just looked at me and said softly:
Some people don't want a healthy relationship.
They want immunity, freedom to disrespect you, ignore you, lie to you, and cross boundaries while expecting you to remain calm enough to avoid exposing it.
The moment your pain becomes visible, they call you the problem.