In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. You cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.
I keep on revisiting this. You might not realize the depth of what he said. In urdu poetry, there is a concept where poets view God as a lonely being, so lonely that He created free willed humans for company. Loneliness is a Godly trait & whoever enters its realm meets God there
Kevin Hart explains why you can’t live in the past
“Real reality is, no matter how much emotion and feeling you may have or how much hurt you may have, life has to go on”
“Life doesn’t stop for anybody. So if you don’t process that and understand that, you’re stuck in whatever time period you got hurt forever”
“So grudges and anger and negativity, I don’t have time for it because I’m living to do so much positive things”
“I’ve got such a positive outlook on everything else that’s coming in the future. I can’t stand in the past and bathe in what was wrong”
If you feel lost, build something.
A business. Your body. A skill set. Anything that gives you a reason to learn and focus.
Don't worry about choosing the right thing. Don't think about how difficult it will be.
Just start moving forward and you'll find a path that feels right
If you want to achieve anything great, it needs to become your one true priority. The only thing on your mind. Nobody accidentally got rich from business. Nobody accidentally built a great physique. They were obsessed with it for multiple years until it became their default.
A pattern I've noticed in stuck people:
They're always busy. They never stop moving. They have 47 tabs open and a notebook-sized to-do list. But if you ask them what they accomplished this week that actually matters, their mind goes blank.
Busyness isn't a badge of honor.
لو لقيت حياتك محدودة بمعنى إنك مش بتنجز الحاجات اللي إنت بتقول إنك بتسعى لها و عندك تسويف مُستمر و كل ما بتبدأ حاجة بتوقفها بعدين و ما بتكملهاش و ما بتاخدش فرص بتتعرض عليك و مش بتخرج برا حدود الروتين بتاعك و متمسك أوي بالعادات اليومية بتاعتك و مابتكسرهاش؟ عايزاك تبص على...
Obsession is a choice: Kobe made that decision. Now you can see his peers reflecting on how they chose opposite. Now that he is no longer here we see who respected his choices. Long Live The Legacy. There is nothing the opposition can say or do to rewrite what is etched in eternity. Kobe don’t need a campaign. The pain was real. The sweat was real. The tears were real. Now the Glory stands alone. #mamba #kobe #mambamentality
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