@emtothesun Not an oomf but The book genderqueer by Maia kobabe. It's well known for the being about the authors journey with gender but is also about asexuality
The suggestion that applicants from top fee paying schools are somehow naturally 'higher quality' than applicants from state schools is vile classism.
If you manage to get 3 x A* despite having class sizes of 25-30, no private tuition, and no family pal to mentor you through the application system, I’d argue you might be the highest quality applicant there is.