if i get a dollar at its current rate for every time i see discourse on feminism and the counterarguments always circle back to "wHy donT we JusT leT woMen livE theiR lives iF it MaKes thEm haPpy", i’m filthy rich right now.
i’m talkin’ STUPID DIRT RICH bruh
@__slowcheetah@awkarin and honestly if thats the case, let her. we as a society shouldnt be caring this much, she is hardly one to look up to, a decade should be enough proof of this
an influencer is said to not have shown any 'character development' for the past 10 years, first of all why do we care? "influencer" is just a label, she aint out here resetting culture nor does she even have credentials to be a tastemaker, so why do we care?
we are unnecesarily holding her to a higher standard and for what? and ultimately, we do not know her like we think we do so how the fuck would you know she isnt evolving?
Salah satu dari benerapa pemantik, yaitu mulut beberapa anggota dewan yang ngatain rakyat "tolol", sekarang anggota dewannya udah pada balik lagi, udah ketawa ketiwi lagi, bahkan salah satunya udah santuy haha hihi aja bikin jokes seksis.
Kayak gak terjadi apa-apa.
@fahkta Justru men should be ashamed kalo ga bisa masak since the culinary world is still a predominantly male field. Excuses can be made but faktanya chef masi banyakan laki. Harusnya lo malu kalo lo laki gabisa masak. Sucks isn’t it? To be put in a box then shamed for not fitting in it
@ini_ayye Dilakukan sesekali? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sesekali banget tuh. Kek ngangkat galon, cek mobil rutinan, cek motor rutinan, cek listrik. Itu kan termasuk dalam perbaikan. Kalau servis atau apa ya dicek dulu.
Terus merawat anak juga ya bapak gk bisa kebagian karena sistem kapitalis ini.
“tapi mamamu saja yang ga punya kendali atas dirinya” is crazy to say about a mother of a person you don’t even personally know. this reeks of arrogance. ngomong emang gampang banget sih.
@faktityus takut tapi blm mencoba? blm melakukan tp sudah ada rasa ketakutan besar. berarti ada masalah sebelumnya...
itu bukan salah konsep providernya tapi mama mu saja yg ga punya kendali atas dirinya dan menyangkut ranah patriaki. keputusan penuh dipegang laki laki
@perogeremmer Harus berani sih engga, tapi gapapa banget kalo emang mau make the first move, selama masih dalam batasan2 yang wajar, gak creepy, gak annoying, women making the first move is actually quite cool.
the way i’ve dated men who on the surface you’d call me stupid for leaving them karna by ya’ll standards beliau2 ni memang ga mokondo, wah ‘provide’ bgtlah but it’s the small, intangible shit that pile up overtime yg kalo gue diem aja, i’d die young
@sqkinny@nekkochem trs kalo ntar ada girls yg speak up dipukulin tapi lakinya provide, the same women yg claim split bill = mokondo in the same breath pasti bacot “kok bego bgt sihh ga cabut, DUIT BERAPAPUN GA WORTH IT KALO DIPUKULIN…” yaaa kan lu lu pada yg perpetuate mentalitas kek gitu paokkkk