Benja White

Take Things Always By Smooth Handle.

[Ja Loka @_fels1]

The King James Bible has 66 books. The Catholic Bible has 73 books while the Orthodox Bible has 81 books. Which one amongst them is the actual truthful and inerrant word of god? Which one contains the words of a business mogul?

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

Don't let people know too much about you.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Some young virgin girls would give their virginity to the men that they don't really like, and start cheating with the men that they really like.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Dear young men,

Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.

This is how you know that you may have found your wife:

1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.

2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.

3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.

4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.

5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.

6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.

7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.

8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.

9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.

10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.

11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.

12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.

13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.

14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.

15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.

If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.

And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If you catch her in the cheating, No, you have not found your wife.

If you don't catch her in the cheating, yes you have found a wife.

Many men are married to women who cheated on them during relationship, but they weren't aware.

And they're still enjoying their marriage.

A woman will continue to treat you like a king until you discover her secrets that she doesn't want you to know about.

End.

[Attraction Matriarch @TheXMatriarch @TheXMatriarch]

Marriage is not a vow that a man will never again be sexually wanted the way he was while being won.

Too many husbands are told to accept a lifetime of reduction, deprivation, and polite little scraps, and then pretend that makes them honorable.

It doesn’t make a husband shallow to want to be wanted by his wife.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

It's such a privilege to have a parent support you in your adult years. In whatever form it comes — money, a listening ear, food, or guidance — it's a privilege. I hope you realize how lucky you are and be grateful while they can still hold their flowers in their arms.

[Praise George @praisegeorge]

Men, it's totally our fault. The reason why we have problems with women is because we ignored the few good women with character and chose the many useless ones who have absolutely no character and no sense.

[First Doctor @FirstDoctor]

Having a lot of sex does not make the vagina loose. Multiple childbirths or menopause can.

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

UNPOPULAR OPINION: The less your coworkers know about your personal life the better.

[Ja Loka @_fels1]

The new algorithm is shit. Showing interests and preferences was always better than prioritizing mutuals.

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

Cut off people who gossip and judge you during the hardest season of your life.

Yes, even family.

[Eric @amerix]

When Mumias Sugar collapsed, the towns around it (Shibale, Mayoni, Mumias) all collapsed.

People lost direct and indirect jobs that stemmed from the factory.

You should see the hopelessness and abject poverty that have engulfed the people who depended on the factory.

It is a sorry state around there.

They now roast maize, smuggle molasses, and sell river sand to keep their dreams alive.

Schools around there, which were the leading schools in Kenya (Booker, Complex and Central), are now struggling to keep up.

Business premises in those towns have been deserted and are rotting away. If you have travelled along Mumias - Bungoma road, you have seen the decay in those towns.

He who opposes the establishment of an industrial complex under the pretext of climate is an enemy and should be condemned.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If you have been sexually active in your relationship, and your girlfriend tells you that she wants you guys to stop the sex until marriage.

Please do not accept it.

Tell her that it's either the sex continues or the relationship is over.

Women love sex.

If she's no longer giving it to you, she's most likely giving it to someone else.

That's asides cheating as well.

Because single women cheat far more than single men.

End.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

Don't be a gentleman to other people's girlfriends or wives, while you're a monster to yours.

[Bambulu @BambuluQ]

"There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self."

[Bambulu @BambuluQ]

"I have tasted the genuine desire of a woman in love, therefore I can no longer chase women" he said.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

It so nice hustling for yourself. No matter the type of job you do, that feeling of having your own money is very nice.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

Sometimes lock your door from the outside, stay inside and listen to what your neighbours are saying about you.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

Scary part about life is that any day can be the last day you talk to someone you love.