And yes, we choose our child’s father but that doesn’t mean we know how they will be as time goes on. It’s fucking ridiculous. It’s always assumed that “oh, she got it” no, i don’t wanna have it all the time 😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
Being a mom full time is hard af. Everyone expects you to be a mom no matter what— what about the dad tho!? Especially when u don’t live w your kid? You don’t want to see them as much as possible? Nope, but u dad of the year huh? 😐
Everybody talks about cutting ppl off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being.
So when did signing your kid of up a sport because a problem for the noncustodial parent because “you’re telling me what to do, how selfish?” Ummm… if your kid wants to do sports- they have to miss out because you’re not shit? Oh ok.