los hombres después de una ruptura van al gimnasio como si el motivo de la ruptura hubiera sido su cuerpo y no su nula capacidad de gestionar emociones
I’m very adamant about not having people around who repeatedly disrupt my nervous system through their lack of care, empathy, and consideration. Get away from me.
I've watched narcissists Push someone to the edge mentally, wait for them to finally snap, then use that breakdown as proof they were always unstable. They create the crisis then blame the victim for reacting.
A narcissist will only “love” you as long as you make them feel good about themselves. Start calling them on their bullshit and watch how quickly you go from soulmate to disposable.
When the bond finally fades, you see them clearly: a deeply self-centered person with an ego too fragile for accountability, someone who avoids communication, hides from honesty, and always finds a way to become the victim instead of growing
>Nobody talks enough about how devastating it is to discover you’ve been cheated on. It’s not just the loss of trust it’s the shock of realizing that the reality you believed in and the reality you were living weren’t the same thing.
u call her toxic now.
but u met her when she was kind, open, trusting. before the lies. before the betrayal. before she had to protect herself from u. she became guarded because u kept hurting her, reactive because u kept crossing line. she became tired because she kept choosing u while u chose yourself. that wasn’t toxicity, that was damage. and expecting her to stay soft after everything u put her through is the real denial.
you changed her, then blamed her?