Afin Chelsea

Everything good will come.

[☆. 🇦🇷 @not_neetham]

abeg if you get infection, try dey use septum ring like others for easy identification.

[palmer10 @Palmererrandboy]

So Martinez ballon d or nomination is for Aston Villa his previous club AND cucurella ballon d or normination is for Real Madrid his current club

[Cross˚ @Elkrosmediahub]

How old was Pele when Arsenal won their last Champions league?

[Nekaishi ✟ Kitsune VTuber 🦊🦋 @nekaishi]

The lone Male Juror on the Lindsay Clancy Trial likely spent 7 days being manipulated, abused, and heckled by 9 women who supported a mother strangling her 3 babies

He was singled out, pressured, intimidated by the defense attorney who vilified and doxed him Infront of millions of delusional narcissists

This man stood on his moral foundation, despite likely severe abuse and manipulation for 7 days... and is the only reason those 3 little babies might find justice

He thinks a Mother shouldn't be allowed to strangle her children and get away with it, yet 100% of the women involved did

He's a hero, and a protector

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

If you say men should not have opinion on Post Partum Depression because they don’t give birth, it then means that a woman who has never given birth should have no opinion on PPD because she also have no idea about it.

You people really don’t use your brain before tweeting.

To curb your ignorance, PPD affects both men and women. Till Jesus come, there will never be a valid excuse for murdering children. We can write baseless articles and make stupid videos to excuse it, but the killer must be hanged first. If you make an excuse for killing children, you have no place among society

[nduka omeife @ndukaomeife]

I agree.

My marriage to my wife has taught me that marriage is a partnership, not competition.

The years leading to our marriage were turbulent for me. But the day I married this woman was the day I married peace into my life.

I married her into extreme lack. She endured the months when there was hardly any money, when we trekked long distances, and when even feeding was a struggle. There was a period when, as a breastfeeding mother, what I could afford was sometimes pap and beans.😃

Then abundance came. Then scarcity came again. We have seen different seasons together.

When I was struggling to raise money for the yoghurt business, she took ₦1 million from her cooperative to support the dream.

When her own career brought an opportunity for us to relocate abroad, it became my turn to stand behind her dream.

When I moved to the UK, she paid a year’s rent plus a huge deposit and took care of me and our four children while I found my feet.

This is what I understand marriage to be.

It is not about keeping score: “I brought this, you brought that.” Sometimes one person carries more financially. Sometimes the other does. Seasons change.

But through every season, you should know: this person has my back, and I have theirs.

And perhaps one of the things I treasure most is this: in all the years we have been married, through lack, abundance, relocation, raising four children, business failures and successes, I cannot remember one day that my wife deliberately disrespected me or use any negative words on me.

Marriage is two people saying:

“This is OUR life. This is OUR home. These are OUR responsibilities. These are OUR dreams. We will build them together.”

Choose someone who has your back and be the kind of person who has theirs too.

Good evening.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

A guy might really like you.. and the sole reason he’s not in a relationship with you is simply coz you’re NOT WORTHY of commitment(not because he’s not ready)

Ladies need to understand these things can be mutual exclusive

He can like you, be there for you, always want to spend time with you, care for you, you can even be his spec too

But he just WON’T and CAN’T make you his.. why ?

You’re just not ‘commitment’ material.

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

I swear I really need answers…

How come female hormones NEVER… I mean NEVER leads them to do something good ?

Why can’t this same hormone lead you people to behave well sometimes.. azin just a few times at least..

Like ~ omg she just sent someone money randomly, must be her hormones at work coz she normally doesn’t press money..

Or ~ Awwwn.. she just got her Man an expensive gift, must be pre-partum happiness or something.

All those ones never happen…. The hormone only leads to anger issues, only pushes them to k!ll an innocent child or st@b someone, only causes mood-swings

Azin.. shey this hormone no dey fluctuate go positive side at all ni ?

Is it that you people’s default state is just to be EVIL, coz how come that’s the only side the so called hormones usually bring out ?

Tf!!🤨

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

This is the poorest Nigerians have ever been. It is common sense that if you want to do life with somebody, a life that is meant to be forever, you do it with someone who is wholeheartedly committed to you and devoted to the home you are building together - with its attendant responsibility which includes, financial investment.

If marriage was not a thing, you would want to partner with a person whom you can trust to share responsibilities with, who has your back and ensures that the home runs effectively without disrespect. What do you think marriage is?

[Tanitoluwa @Adeife_Adenekan]

It really took heartbreak for me to realize how broken and unfair the romantic relationship dynamics is and why I never want to be involved again.

Bruh the amount of expectations you have to meet excellently for a babe is insane lmao.

[Neo Officiall @neo_officialll]

They all have expectations. Your job is to quench those expectations when they come up.

You are supposed to say NO to 9 out of every Nigerian woman's 10 demands.

If she no do again, make she dy go.

You cannot live life walking on eggshells while trying to please a mad person.

[Títóbilóba Àdùkẹ́ @Teetoh10]

Postpartum depression is real but one thing i have noticed is mad women that have kids don't kill their kids, they will fight you if you even tried to take the kids from them
Make out of this whatever you want

[guz! @yeh0shua_]

when have i ever told a lie #Guzpel #SayNoToBoyfriendGig

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

I don’t think you people are seeing how much of a problem this is…

- Outings/date nights automatically won’t slap the same if they’re the ones paying for’em

- “Love is sweet, when money enters love is sweeter”… but the money has to come from one side for it to be sweet

- It automatically doesn’t seem like ‘Baecation’ again if their own money is involved

Now explain to me…
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How is ‘ROMANCE’ not SCAM to Men ?

[Menstrual cramps @TheGooveDuck]

Says the people who don't communicate and apologise.

[UG @UgwunnaEjikem]

The average Nigerian man’s idea of partnership is warped but I don’t blame him for it, we were largely socialized so but I blame him for his insistent refusal to unlearn FOR HIS OWN GOOD.

One of the first culture shocks I got here was the near or total absence of hypergamy & “financial status” in dating culture, I go to the nursing station for a chit chat & white nurses + doctor colleagues are so eager to show off their builder, painter, road work etc husbands, telling you with glee about their jobs, they’ll eagerly show you pictures of what he constructed or painted on etc, whether they out-earn the man or the job isn’t white collar isn’t their business: they plan holidays, mortgages, businesses, child care, house chores etc TOGETHER.

No added pressure or responsibility to perform from within your home, each one holding the other up & winging life together, celebrating wins & losses as ONE.

You want to form “Odogwu” so your woman won’t disrespect you meanwhile you’re struggling to keep your head above the waters instead of simply finding a woman who loves you enough to respect you regardless of your pockets, or are your friends & siblings also allowed to disrespect you when you’re broke?

Anyway continue, so you can die of a silent heart attack at 40, like a real man🥳

[Big Cuz @imohumoren]

In fact if you get to prison and other male criminals discover you killed a child they will kill you

[YOM🗣️ @ThaBoyYom]

Lol Said it before and i’ll keep saying it..

Woman wey go ‘whine’ me…

DOESN’T EXIST!

[Afin Chelsea @whyte_yte]

@funnylsb_ Up blues!

[Lekan Olayinka @lekan_olayinka1]

I think it is important we represent the facts well regarding Lindsay killing her children.

Ife is saying she had no help and was pyschotic. But that's not true.

Lindsay had a group of psychatriatrists attending to her and none diagnosed her of psychosis. None. See below:

1. Dr. Jennifer Tufts (psychiatrist, September 2022 through her last appointment on January 23, 2023):

generalized anxiety disorder, depression, and insomnia.

She raised the possibility of bipolar disorder in November 2022 but concluded Clancy did not meet the criteria.

On January 23, she documented depression and lack of motivation but stated Clancy reported no suicidal or homicidal thoughts and showed “no signs of psychosis.”

She described her as “very clearly not psychotic.”

2. Rebecca Jollotta (psychiatric nurse practitioner, starting late November 2022):

considered an underlying bipolar or mixed-state bipolar picture and prescribed pills.

She did not diagnose postpartum psychosis.

3. Dr. Alia Goodheart (McLean Hospital psychiatrist during the January 1–5, 2023 voluntary inpatient stay):

major depressive disorder, severe, without psychotic features, plus insomnia.

She testified that she observed no signs of psychosis, had no concerns that Clancy was a danger to others, and discharged her as low-risk after she reported better sleep and wanted to attend her daughter’s birthday party.

So, where is this claim coming from?

These only appeared in her defence after she had killed her three children.

Furthermore, she had. Lots of it.

A nanny worked three days a week. Mother-in-law was around.

She had 18 weeks of maternity leave.

Patrick took 12 weeks of paternity leave.

When she told her family she had thoughts of harming her kids, they wanted to separate her from them.

She declined.

On the morning she killed them, she was happy. Took the kids to the pediatrician.

Before sending her husband on a longer-than-usual errand and killing the children.

And regarding her suicide attempt, it has been noted that she didn't leap out the window.

She lowered herself, and the cuts to the wrists were superficial.

So, what is this defence for a methodical murder of children?

And I hope women understand the implication of this.

If your hormonal dynamics erase your agency as an adult, that would set very damning precedents regarding women's rights.

Lindsay methodically slaughtered those children. Let's not put up defences for her.