Q6. My sugar daddy got a cancer diagnosis and so he’s a little depressed because he thinks he’s about to die. He doesn’t want to do the treatment for it because he don’t wanna lose his hair and he’d be too weak for s3x. (His stroke game is lopsided and slow now so I understand his concern.) But anyway he keeps mentioning that he loves me and he wants us to die together. I’m not interested in checking out right now, you know, and I told him clearly if you thinking about death or you want a death pact or whatever you go first—I’ll catch up with you in the afterlife. I stay with him because I need money and he’s generous but every time I hang around he’s bringing up the fact that, you know, we need to check out together so he won’t be alone in the afterlife. I ain’t with it, but I can’t leave him right now cuz I need money, so advice please. #TheSaxophoneIsGettingLouder. #SBCCHAT
Q5. When he first started at my job, I knew he was engaged or in a relationship or something. He wore a ring to work, but I didn’t see no pictures and nothing on his desk so I threw this good-good on him. 😋 Next thing you know, he moved in with me. I was cool with that cuz I knew now it’s my turn. I wanted to nudge him in the right direction, and make him be my man, so I posted a pic of us and I tagged him. He got pissed and he told me to stop putting my stuff out there like we a couple cuz he ain’t that type of guy. (His ex has NEW pics of him posted). I’m trying to figure out what game is he playing and I told him I’m not gonna stop speaking on you, and if you don’t wanna be my man then say that. And I also said “I can stop f-cking you too,” and he said, “I wouldn’t miss it.” He’s pulling away from me. What do I do? #SBCCHAT
Q4. I dated Robyn for 2 years. She would attend my son’s games and have snacks for him and his teammates. She wore jerseys with my kid’s name on it. She was really putting it out there for my kid and my kid loved her for that. I hooked up with one of the other team moms and that woman jumped Robyn. Robyn cut me off; I understood that, but she cut my son off, too—and my son misses her. TBH, if I chose anybody for a wife it would be Robyn. But here’s the worst part, she came to one of my son’s games and she sat with the other team. My son mean mugged me when Robyn passed out the snacks. I texted her and told her to come say hi to my boy. She responded, “U dead 2 me.” I replied she should still greet my son. Her reply; “Fk him 2.” How do I make her understand that she can’t just walk out of my son’s life because of what I did? She’s being a demon. And she’s a toxic Cancer. Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q3. In December something happened and my boyfriend got arrested. I was at work and his mom had to meet him at the traffic stop to pick up my child. I never got the full story of his arrest; he told me something about he had a warrant and the cops pulled him over and they took him to jail. So I’m watching YouTube and I see my car. I see my boyfriend. I see my son (who was 2-years-old) had been left in the car in the dead of winter while my boyfriend was in some woman’s apartment. A stranger saw my son crying in the car and called police. My boyfriend emerged from the apartment building with another woman and he was arrested for child neglect. (His mom NEVER told me what really happened). So now that I have the full story of what happened, I need a strategy to evict him quickly and effectively so that he knows he can’t ever come back. He’s an enemy. He has a temper and nowhere to go. Please help. #SBCCHAT
Q2. I want kids. Jamila wanted marriage. I felt that having a kid with her would be enough cuz I didn’t want to marry her. I don’t have nothing against her. I just didn’t see her as my ride-or-die. So I told her I’ll give you a son or I’ll give you a daughter but I’m not giving you a ring. Take it or leave it. She left me alone. I got over it and I’m in a relationship now with a woman who is pregnant. My cousin told me Jamila is married and she posted a whole bunch of wedding pictures. I didn’t like Jamila enough to wanna be her husband, but when I saw the pics my heart stopped. I can’t stop thinking about her and I don’t know why. I’m ignoring my pregnant girlfriend because I’m stalking Jamila. I’m ashamed of it. I don’t know why I’m doing it. I wish I could stop but I think I just want closure. I want to know why did she leave me for that guy? How do I get her to give me closure? That’s what I need to know. #SBCCHAT
Q1. Please don’t hate me but last summer my life was falling apart and at the same time one of my closest friends was super blessed. She was on the come up. Every time I turned around she had good news; a new job. A new car. Her man proposed; I mean it was wave after wave of all this positive news while my life was falling apart. The man I was dealing with went back to his wife and got a new ho; the job I had cut staff and brought everyone back but me. It was just crazy shit happening to me and she invited me to the museum like she was trying to cheer me up, I guess but I felt like she was flaunting her wins. That’s what I felt like, so I did something horrible. She was supposed to get married in September of this year. She had a cute romance and he proposed to her after 7 months and I was hurt. I seduced him and I “accidentally” FaceTimed her while he was f-cking me down to the floor. I wanted to destroy her. I wanted her good news to stop. I wanted her to see that her man wasn’t better than the married guy that I was dealing with; all men are hos. I tried to apologize but she’s not speaking to me. I’m in a relationship with her ex now and I feel like this is going well and I just don’t want what I’ve done in the past to haunt me in this relationship. So I’m looking for a way to clean up my karma because he’s a keeper and I wanna keep him. But how do I clean up my karma if the person I hurt the most won’t even talk to me? Help. #SBCCHAT