@Jprz1321 Definitely not. I was correlating low IQ to pedophilia. There’s studies that show that being a pedo often goes along with being stupid because you have to be as “dumb as a box of hair” to mess with a child. It’s Your comment sir that speaks that volumes on your IQ .
Travis Barker and Kid Cudi REVEAL they were smoking up to 20 blunts every single day, with Travis opening up about only quitting after being diagnosed with precancer of the esophagus, while Cudi admits he had to check into rehab after constantly chain-smoking hundreds of pre-rolls out of a briefcase.
"I only quit because I got diagnosed with like precancer of the esophagus... My doctor who's a really good friend of mine was like, This is your warning shot Trav, don't fuck around, like you got to stop smoking.' I would have never stopped. I thought like I could be like Willie Nelson and smoke till the day I die."
"I was really overdoing it. I was smoking like maybe 15, 20 blunts a day. In my little Louis Vuitton briefcase I would have hundreds of them... As soon as that one was low, put it out, light up another one. If I was awake, was smoking... It got to a point where I was like, man, I don't want to be high right now….So I went to rehab."
This hits hard. The way he lays out how one person gets there first and just keeps telling the version of the story that makes them look good, over and over, while you're not in the room... yeah, that's how it actually goes. And then once the label sticks ("controlling," "unstable," whatever), everything you do after that gets twisted to prove the label was right the whole time. You defend yourself? Defensive. You set a boundary? There it is, controlling again. Your reaction becomes the new evidence. That's the part that feels especially unfair.
The triangulation thing is real too. People stop talking to you and start talking about you, and the story gets passed around sibling to sibling, parent to kid, until it starts sounding like common knowledge even though half the people repeating it never saw anything firsthand. And nobody wants to be the one who questions it, because then they're the problem. So the whole group stays locked in.
The line at the end stuck with me: consensus isn't the same thing as truth. An entire family agreeing about you doesn't automatically mean they're right. Healthy families can handle people asking questions or having different takes. A lot of families just treat any disagreement as disloyalty.
Sounds exhausting to live through.
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