Ben Wilder

Desire, truth, vulnerability. Philosopher & sensualist, smirking through life. 🖤 Essays, art, and the human body unveiled.

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

The problem isn’t what people say. It’s what they keep doing while you keep believing what they said.

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[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

The problem isn’t what people say. It’s what they keep doing while you keep believing what they said.

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[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

You can tell a lot about a person by the identities they refuse to outgrow.

Some coping mechanisms just get better outfits and better vocabulary.

New essay: https://t.co/c5xVq9pYct

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

I’m no longer interested in being the person who survives himself.

Soon.

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Narcissus wasn’t vanity—just isolation with feedback.

Narcissus: alone long enough for the mirror to become company.

It wasn’t self-love. It was no other reflection.

Narcissus didn’t choose himself. Nothing else stayed.

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#exposure #mythological #human

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

there’s a difference between being attractive and being distracting
i prefer the second category

[LRMF @LRMF54]

Looking for a man to impregnate today

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Sexual tension is honestly just advanced eye contact and poor decision making.

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Kentucky grit wrapped in thrifted colors and bad decisions.

[қант ☦️✝️ ▆▄▆▇▇▆▅▅█ @allestutweh29]

древние педики в греции, которые хотели внимания, такие:
χυδαι ὠαταα. μαδοννα

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

“I like my women like I like my coffee. Nowhere near my dick. “ I need some ideas
#gayart #sketching

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Is it Rush or is it cake?!

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Maybe the rest belongs after midnight..

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[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

#NewProfilePic

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Niceness is often just fear learning how to behave.
It keeps things smooth—but not true.
Kindness tells the truth.
Most people aren’t weak—they’re unguided.
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#SelfAwareness #Courage #Authenticity

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

I make things out of thoughts I can’t turn off.
If it moves you, you can buy me a coffee.
Or just tell me I’m a good boy. That works too.
Inbox is open.
✍🏻 📖 🎨 ☕
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[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Without glory it's just a hole 🤔

[Ben Wilder @wildersanatomy]

Imagination is where desire tells the truth first—
quietly, honestly, without asking who’s watching.

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#WildersAnatomy #DesireWithoutPermission #QueerDesire #seeyourself #Gay