tapi bener, orang2 yg tangki cintanya udah dipenuhin sama orang tua, jarang yg nyari cinta sampe gila2an di luar sana.
mereka lebih respect ke diri sendiri, tau batasan, ga asal milih pasangan karena standar mereka tinggi, apalagi kalo deket sama ayahnya.
Saya yang lahir dari keluarga pas-pasan dengan luck rate 50%, sependapat. Sekali gagal ya remuk, padahal kudu usaha lebih. Akhirnya, terbawa ke mana pun.
Makanya kuping ini alergi dengan kalimat "Dih, kayak gitu aja gabisa?" atau sejenisnya.
ada quotes dr man's search for meaning yg aku suka:
"those who have a 'why' to live, can bear almost any 'how'."
klo hidupmu mulai punya "why" yg berasal dr diri sendiri, perhatianmu ke org lain akan mengecil. your love tank fills up when you become your own favorite company.
Eleanour and Park by Rainbow Rowell
Rating: 4/5
Genre: Young Adult, Romance, Fiction
"I want everyone to meet you. You're my favourite person of all time"
#buku#bookish#readingbook#literasi
The ending left me emotional. I honestly felt especially sorry for Park, because he loved Eleanor so sincerely and even his family slowly learned to accept her. But at the same time, I understood Eleanor too.
I also appreciated that the novel did not romanticise abuse. Eleanor’s home life felt tense, fragile, and painfully realistic. It explained why even happiness felt unsafe for her.
Meanwhile, Eleanor made me heartbroken the entire time. You could clearly see how trauma and fear shaped the way she viewed love. For Park, love came naturally. For Eleanor, love felt terrifying because she was so used to losing everything she cared about.
The 1980s atmosphere, the mixtapes, comics, school bus rides, and awkward silences made the romance feel incredibly intimate and genuine. Park’s love felt soft and simple — he just wanted Eleanor to smile.
Reading Eleanor & Park felt like quietly sitting beside two lonely teenagers who slowly became each other’s safe place.
What I loved most about this book was not the plot, but the feelings.
tp guys serius kalau kalian pengen jadi ortu di masa depan pls pls pls listen to your children. jangan kebanyakan diabaikan apalagi digodain dan dibully tiap anaknya ngomong. ortu gue selalu dengerin ocehan anaknya dari bocil hasilnya semua anaknya bisa public speaking...
lupain dulu deh relationship sama komitmen itu. kerja aja dulu kerja, nongkrong keluar, beli makanan dan kopi favorit, wujudin dulu liburan ke tempat-tempat yang pengen kita datengin. dunia nggak akan berhenti cuma karena kita sendirian.
WAH INI SIH
jujur, setakut apapun lu, selama lu show up, everything will comes along.
every good thing in your life will and only will happen when you show up.
Giliran KAI ada kecelakaan, itupun krn taksi, Dirut KAI diminta mundur oleh DPR.
Ehh…pas MBG byk anak sekolah yg keracunan, kpl BGN malah tambah foya2 pake anggaran dibiarkan DPR.
Bangke ga tuh! 🤣🤣🤣