They'll never know your value until you become a memory. Before sacrificing yourself for ungrateful people, don't forget to love yourself first and take good care of yourself.
"We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope. The dawn always follows the darkest night."——-
Martin Luther King Jr.
#Hope#Endurance#KeepTheFaith
May God connect you to a love without malice. A person who will value, honor, and protect your heart and God’s covenant. A best friend. Someone you can laugh and create beautiful memories with.
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
You shouldn't be doing any of these as a married man or married woman ...
1. Being on dating sites or apps. What are you looking for? You have no business where single people go to find love. Leave and delete immediately.
2. Flirting or entertaining flirts. This is very very wrong. It may look harmless, but it always costs more than it's worth.
3. Staying in contact with your ex. Leave your ex alone. Cut off your ex completely. You are disrespecting your spouse & your marriage if you are still holding on to your ex.
4. Having close friendships with the opposite sex. Boundaries protect love. If your spouse would feel uneasy about your friendship, it is already too close.
5. Having emotional or sexual affairs. Cheating is meeting a legitimate need in an illegitimate way. It starts when someone else becomes your secret source of comfort or excitement.
6. Comparing your spouse to other people. Comparison kills gratitude. It blinds you to what's beautiful in your spouse and magnifies what is missing.
7. Hiding your phone, passwords, or messages. Secrecy destroys safety. Transparency builds trust. Privacy is healthy, secrecy is not.
8. Venting about your spouse to the opposite gender. Every time you confide your marital frustrations to someone of the opposite sex, you open the door to emotional dependency.
9. Dressing or behaving to attract attention outside your marriage. When your desire to be desired by others outweighs your desire to honor your spouse, your heart is already drifting.
10. Following or engaging inappropriate social media content. Just stop it.
Marriage is a daily commitment to honor, protect, and nurture what you vowed to build. Every time you cross a boundary, you chip away at the trust that holds your love together. Stay faithful not out of fear, but out of love and reverence for what you promised.
DennisAgbeti