i think a lot of queer and trans twitter needs to hear this. “gender entitlement: when a person privileges their own perceptions, interpretations, and evaluations of other people’s genders over the way those people understand themselves” (serano, 2007).
i think everyone would be much happier if they stopped tirelessly trying to police each other’s identities. you guys are fucking miserable and it’s because you care too much about what other people are doing!
trying to be so progressive about nonbinary identities that you’ve circled around to being ignorant. nonbinary people don’t have to use specific pronouns or look a certain way, that’s kinda the entire point