I feel like we don’t have double edged conversations because why is there a consensus that they’re not funny or that their content is slop ??
That’s just not true
@Aunty_Les The way I was so anxious for her from when she kept saying he should head to the intl airport .
Not sure he planned on spending that birthday with her cos he was on his phone texting endlessly 😵💫
its been millennia of women who didnt really want them and had them. navigating regret is part of the human experience, most women who are actively avoiding kids are well aware that one of the risks of any decision is potential future regret 🤷🏾♀️
I am indifferent about people bringing their private lives to the public. However,I have reflected on the fact that people keeping things absolutely private is not an eco friendly decision.
How do we get entertained?
We can’t allow boredom in our society.
We need to protect and maintain the ecosystem and I am all for aproko and some amebo sustainability.
I feel so much exhaustion these days, it's why I barely share any opinions or join convos here anymore.
You raise a point, that's very valid, and the one constant would be men becoming immediately affronted instead of listening. Then they go on to make it abt your delivery.
If you’re in the content business for women, you’ll understand what Jola is saying. There’s data to back it up. Not everything has to become couples’ content.
I’m very quick to unfollow content creators who move to couple content. I follow certain specific creators who have always done couple content but when I follow you for food or makeup or fashion and suddenly I’m hearing “today WE…” I unfollow with the quickness.
It’s quite fascinating how you can bring people into your life and then remove them from it. Like many people I used to talk to, I’ve never encountered them again after we had a falling out.
A grumpy man can control a family without ever raising his voice. He just has to make his displeasure expensive enough. A long silence at dinner. A ruined car ride. Soon, everyone starts pre-adjusting. The kids are told “not now” before they can ask. She chooses the restaurant he likes, the movie he won’t complain through, the route that avoids traffic because traffic makes him unbearable. This is how a household becomes organized around one person’s refusal to regulate themselves.
No. This is a weird fantasy that men make up.
It’s absurd.
This is why the orgasm gap is so large. They believe sticking anything in a vagina makes women horny. Men are so uneducated about women’s bodies.
I wonder what is Christ’s standard for dealing with folks you just don’t want to talk to.
Like I’ve forgiven them, but I won’t reply their messages or talk to them cos I don’t want them to access my energy in any form
Is this malice ?
The only thing making you uncomfortable about a couple being married for years without a child is your own expectations, that’s not their issue. We built a society that sees women as baby machines and then have the nerve to call it concern. Unlearn that before you open your mouth. We need to start minding our business