“Someone who lets you rest” might be one of the most beautiful relationship dynamics there is.
A parent who opens the door and welcomes you home after everything has fallen apart. A best friend whose voice alone quiets your mind. A partner who tells you to stay in bed a little longer because the dishes can wait.
A stranger who notices how exhausted you look and offers you their seat on the train.
There is something profoundly human about people who make you feel like you don’t have to carry the weight of the world all by yourself. They don’t just love you they give you somewhere to put your burdens down, if only for a little while.
im a firm believer in taking care of the man that takes care of me, if a nigga makes sure im straight rather it be something big or small. I'm going to always make sure he knows that he's appreciated.
Can you imagine the pride her grandmother feels seeing this? She’s 93 so she saw and/or experienced Jim Crow, redlining, KKK attacks,the civil rights movement, massive injustice and inequality, and more. But she made it. And so did her granddaughter!
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- taking things slow, deep and long
- conversations learning eachother
- soft flirting
- sincere connection
- being vulnerable
- slow burn relationship
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Stop spraying perfume on your neck
Another neurodivergent fun fact: Neurodivergent people often have strong emotional empathy but delayed processing. So we feel everything immediately, then understand it later.
Honestly if you push someone away who is all about you and you only... you really fucked up because most people out here be finicky as fuck when it comes to genuine intentions. Be careful who you push away, you might not find anyone like them again.
Untreated trauma WILL turn into dementia and autoimmune disease. The body keeps score. The emotions you suppressed, the stress you normalized, the pain you never processed, it all builds up in your nervous system. And over time, it starts to break you down.
in my humble opinion, the most beautiful thing abt love is the effort. like the one that doesn't even feel like effort, just deliberate action motivated by pure love and desire to make another person happy. making conscious choices in favour of that person, taking your time to create special moments and rituals, distance nor time notwithstanding
I believe two lovers should be strong minded entities branched off and isolated from the the minds and thoughts of what others feel, giving them time to learn and create the perfect environment of love together without the pollution and influence of random outside minds